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Nadia Ilse had been brutally teased by her peers for years. They called her “Dumbo” because her ears stick out a bit. Nadia was miserable, so when she saw the chance to change the physical feature that had always been the bane of her existence, she leapt at it.

 

 

Since she was 10, she begged her mom for an otoplasty, which is a type of plastic surgery that pins back your ears, making them less noticeable. And this summer, with help from the Little Baby Face Foundation, her pleas were answered. The charity, whose main focus is to provide free corrective surgery to young children born with facial deformities, offered to give her the surgery she wanted for free. But that wasn’t all; they also reduced the size of her nose and the changed the shape of her chin.

 

Now, Nadia can’t wait to go back to school—this fall, she begins her freshman year of high school. According to the Huffington Post, Nadia loves her new look. And though she knows that she should have accepted how she looked prior to surgery, she doesn’t regret it because she knows the bullying would never have stopped.  

 

We’re thrilled that Nadia is thrilled, but we can’t help but question the message this sends to girls everywhere facing the same treatment, and the bullies who are making them doubt themselves. Should you change your appearance in an effort to be perfect and stop critics in their tracks? Or should you stand strong and be proud of who you are, regardless of what anyone says—after all, you were born this way, right?

 

You decide. Tell us what you think in the comments, girlies.

BY BRITTANY TAYLOR ON 8/2/2012 12:33:00 PM

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Man, I can barely believe it. This poor girl (and probably many others) was bullied enough to get plastic surgery. I don't like the idea of plastic surgery, especially on young women (and sometimes little girls), but i still feel bad. I mean, I think she should've embraced her look, and if she wanted to, cover her ears with a stylish hairdo if things came to that. But man, PLASTIC SURGERY? Prayers for Nadia.

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by cheetah#1 on 8/9/2012 8:34:26 PM

 
 

Before reading this article, I knew what comments I would find below it. "She shouldn't have gotten surgery! She was beautiful before! It's what's on the inside that counts!"

The problem with these comments is the lack of originality. "She was beautiful before" does not have an effect on the fact that she had surgery. No one seems to be considering that everyone can have plastic surgery if they so desire.

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by sophlida on 8/9/2012 7:09:39 PM

 
 

No, she shouldn't have gotten the surgery! Plastic surgery is only succumbing to the cruel words. It's on the inside that counts, and plastic surgery doesn't teach us to love ourselves for who we are, and be proud of what we're made of. Nadia could have taken the opportunity to find people who see her for the beautiful person she was before, and TAKE A STAND against bullying! Also, in the "before" picture she isn't wearing any makeup, and just the makeup can work wonders. We were all born with the things that make us unique, and to go under the knife isn't teaching anyone that beauty is INSIDE and OUT! The bullying would have stopped if she had had the guts to stand up to the bullies. It's great that she's happy, but is that true happiness? Isn't that just showing the bullies that they had the last word?

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by wei-lan_98 on 8/9/2012 5:19:02 PM

 
 

i would like to say that when i was 6 i had the same surgery that she had on her ears like her my ears stuck out on the sides of my head i wasnt bullied because of them before the surgery but i didnt like my ears the way they were so i got it done. after the surgery i grew keyloids as a reaction to the surgery. i do not regret getting the surgery but i was bullied more after the surgery because i grew keyloids on my ears. the thing now is that im 17 now on saturday im going to get the 1st of 6 treatments to get rid of the keyloids. the reason i didnt do it when i was younger was cause back then the didnt have the kind of treatment that they have now back when i was 6 in order to remove the keyloids it was full on surgery with no guarantee of them being gone forever. now its shots in my ears and lasers with a guarantee that they wont come back.

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by rtgirl on 8/9/2012 5:00:54 PM

 
 

i think that it was horrible for her to get plastic surgery. maybe it stopped the bullying, but i don't think she tried any of the things that she could of tried, like telling somebody when it first started, or just ignoring them. nobody should feel like they need to change how they look or are because of somebody else. She should have stood up. I would NEVER get plastic surgery.

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by iluvuso on 8/9/2012 4:43:48 PM

 
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