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Why are all the guys I like jerks? I think they’re nice and funny at first, but then they turn out to be so mean and nasty. I know I shouldn’t like them, but I can’t get over them. Help!
 
Hey girlie! Kudos to you for realizing that jerks are bad news. The next step to getting over these boys is probably to start checking out some of the quieter guys in your classes. Even though they’re shy, chances are they’re totes sweeter than the jerks you’ve been crushing on before. Find some common ground between you two, and it could be the start of something great! But, if chatting up shy guys isn’t really your thing, try talking to some of your guy buds. You may start seeing them in a different light once you have heart-to-heart convo, or find out that you both love that show from the '90s.
 
Or, if you just want to take a break from the crushing scene, plan a girls’ night out or have some me-time by getting lost in your fave book. It may take some time, but you’ll get over these jerks, and who knows? Maybe you’ll meet a really sweet guy next time you’re at the mall or grabbing some fro-yo!
 
 

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So there's this guy in my class and I've been emailing him for a while over the summer cuz I thought he seemed nice. But he likes me now and I just don't feel that way about him. It seemed like he didn't like me anymore and then he invited me to come with him to bring a friend night at this music thing he's doing. I don't want to go, not just because I feel like he would get the wrong impression. I mean I love music but I really am not interested in going. How can I tell him that without totally crushing him? I don't want to upset him cuz he's kinda sensitive about these sort of things...

Hey girl,

Tell him the truth: that you enjoy spending time with him but want to keep your relationship at the friendship level. It will be better to tell him the truth now than to lead him on! And just tell him you're busy that night if you don't want to go!

Meghan D.

by Sunny79 on 9/8/2012 9:15:11 PM

 
 



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Ok,so,I like this guy.We started talking a few months ago,and then he gave me his number.Now we text all the time.But now,it's like he's trying to avoid me.We don
t text that much anymore.We talk on the phone some,but not a lot.He said I was one of his best friends,and he is one of mine.He is the only guy I know who can keep a seceret.And he said I'm the only girl he knows that doesn't get caught up into drama.But,it seems like he flirts with a lot of girls.He keeps saying he's married on Facebook.I don't get it.He got mad at me one day because I just asked about it!But,all I asked was,Why do you keep saying your married on Facebook?and he blew.I feel like it's fault that we're kinda drifting away.What can I do?Please help!

 

Hey girlie,

It doesn't sound much like your fault that you're drifting apart. Maybe he wanted a "GBF" (girl best friend) but doesn't deal with friendship the way you do. Guys' friendships can be a little different - they don't always have to share secrets, or talk every day, or get close on an emotional level like girls do. So it might feel like he's pulling away, but really everything could be fine! Try to stick with it and just be casual. If something bugs him, try not to talk about it anymore. Or you could try to be chill and say something like, "Dude relax, I'm just messing with you." It's his decision whether he wants to flirt with a lot of girls or change his Facebook status, so try not to judge him or try to change him. And remember not to over-analyze the situation and just go with the flow. Guys are simple, even though they seem confusing sometimes. If it feels like you're forcing it, take a step back and hang with your other friends. If he wants you in his life, he'll make sure you're there. And if not, that's ok too - people grow apart! It's totally normal and nothing you've done wrong. <3


Lauren C.

by mathgeek221 on 8/19/2012 10:17:57 AM

 
 

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So I've been messaging a guy on kik all day. We were flirting and then I found out he's 12. I'm 15. But its kinda late considering I already kinda like him. He asked me if he was older if I would go out with him and I. Told there was a high possibility. What do I do. Ps. We don't even live in the same state. What do I do?????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl, in general I would say that a one or maybe two year age difference is no big deal, but anything more than that gets iffy at best. However, meeting a guy in person that you met online or over messaging is not a good idea. You should never give personal contact information to someone over the internet or messaging. Instead, keep your eyes open at school for some face-to-face hotties and leave your options open for a non-virtual dude.

Lauren I.

by ladyinlike on 8/17/2012 3:47:06 PM

 
 



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Help my BF is too clingy. He's really sweet but I feel like we're moving to fast.We have to text every second of everyday or he thinks im ignoring or something. Plus, he's said he loved me the SECOND day we were dating. I want to continue dating him but he's driving me CRAZY how do I tell him without hurting his feeling.




Hey girlie,

Ugh, that is so annoying! It's great to be wanted and it's nice to have a BF who likes spending time with you, but gosh you need a break to have your own life too! Check out this article - I think this advice will really help <3

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/10/01/clingy-boyfriend.aspx 
Lauren C.

by 1Dlove513 on 8/16/2012 9:55:45 PM

 
 

Boy Problems ASAP
Ever need someone 2 talk 2 but, your to afraid 2 ask your parents. It's OK just talk to me and I'll help you out ASAP!Please feel free 2 ask questions.Oh and remember the more people the BETTER!Ages 10-17

by AarynJ on 8/15/2012 10:10:58 PM

 
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