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Exclusive! Bella Thorne shares the secrets to beating bullies and becoming a leader


 

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Looking for a little confidence boost before heading back to class? Bella Thorne’s got the answer. The Shake It Up star is currently teaming up with her co-star Zendaya as part of Disney’s Friends for Change Ambassadors, and they’re hard at work inspiring kids to take a stand against bullying, helping to make the world a better place.

 

As part of the program, B and Z recently hit up the Free The Children’s Leadership Academy in Arizona, where they participated in a series of workshops designed to give youth leaders a deeper understanding of their leadership styles. Pretty cool, right?

 

It’s no secret Bella’s fallen victim to school bullying in the past due to her dyslexia. But it’s only made her stronger. Here, she shares her best tips for dealing with bullies, and how we can all be leaders this school year.  

GL: What’s the best thing a girl can do when she’s face-to-face with a bully?

Bella: Walk away. It’s that easy. Sometimes people get scared in a situation where they can’t walk away, and that’s when you know it’s bad. They’re too scared to walk away and so they just put up with it.

 

What's the best thing a girl can do if she sees somebody being bullied?

Run and tell a teacher because they will bring the kid in for bullying. Then they’ll have to call their parents, and no kid in school wants their parents to be called.

 

So true! What about something girls can do if they see a friend being bullied?

Help them. Don’t just watch and be a bystander. I know that while I was being bullied [for my dyslexia], I always wanted someone to come and rescue me.

 

What if you said something mean to someone—when’s the best time to apologize?

The second you say it. Apologize immediately and say you didn’t mean it like that. Because once the damage is done, it’s done, and there’s nothing you can do about that.

 

The Friends for Change program also focuses on being a leader. What are some characteristics a leader embodies?

I think everyone can be [one]! As long as you’re doing the right thing and you’re following your heart, that’s [being] a leader.

 

What’s one small way a girl can become a leader this school year?

Make sure you’re always studying. Personally, for Zendaya (her mom and dad are teachers) and me, that’s a big thing—and obviously it’s also a big thing for your future.

 

What’s one thing every girl should remember when walking into her first day of school?

Look straight [ahead] and walk like it’s your last walk, hunnie. Act like you’re walking down the runway.

 

Catch a peek at Bella and Zendaya’s experience at Free The Children’s Leadership Academy below…

 

 

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BY KELLY MYSLINSKI AND PATRICIA MCNAMARA ON 8/15/2012 10:00:00 AM

POSTED IN entertainment, television, Disney, Shake It Up, celebrity interviews, Celebs, Bella Thorne, school, bullying 101, how to deal with a bully, back to school, first day back, bust first day fears, BTS Q & A, leadership 101, self-esteem

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haha i fures it out Smile

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by Jbug77 on 8/20/2012 8:33:40 PM

 
 

I love Bella! She is so pretty and seems so funny. The only thing is they make her Shake It Up character seem kind of dumb. :/ This is a great thing she's doing

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by 41047 on 8/17/2012 9:52:34 AM

 
 

i love the friends for change campaign

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Join my club: Operation: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Our mission is to post anonymous notes in public places for other people to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!! In my club, we will have daily quotes that you can put on post- its to uplift girls. We also give advice on how you can make your day better, and everyone else’s day better! So please join our uplifting club so we can tell everyone that we are beautiful the way we are!

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by heather99 on 8/16/2012 12:29:55 PM

 
 

Her advice is great but i was never bullied in school though so i cant exactly relate... But ill def stick up for someone if i see them getting bullied!
Anyway, if any of you girls need help, im right here and happy to help! No question is to stupid or emarasing! I can even help with fashion advise! i loveeeeeee helping people so ask a uestion on my page! xxx -c

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by dojhallow97 on 8/16/2012 11:50:03 AM

 
 

Boy Problems ASAP
Ever need someone 2 talk 2 but, your to afraid 2 ask your parents. It's OK just talk to me and I'll help you out ASAP!Please feel free 2 ask questions.Oh and remember the more people the BETTER!Ages 10-17. JOIN THE CLUB

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by AarynJ on 8/15/2012 10:23:40 PM

 
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