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My boyfriend is very sweet. But we are young, and he always tries to kiss me and is becoming very obsessive. I don’t want to go out with him if he keeps smothering me. It doesn’t help that his friends are my friends, and that he is in all my classes, rides my bus and lives next door. Even if we break up, it will be very awkward. What do you think I should do?


Dear Too Many Problems,

Time for you two to talk. Try, “I really like you. But I don’t feel ready for kissing yet, and I wish you would respect that. Your pressuring makes getting together less fun. You need to slow down a little.” Will it be difficult for you to say this? Yes. But staying silent is already difficult, right? If he cares about your feelings, he’ll listen. If he doesn’t, he’s not BF-worthy. If you do break up, now or in the future, you can both be friendly and mature so that seeing each other and sharing friends isn’t harder than necessary.
 
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 8/22/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, dealing with a breakup, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, I'm not ready to kiss, weird guy stuff, pressure to get physical, too far too fast

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I'm so out of my league I've had a small hand full of boyfriends, and a whole lot of boy friends. But I've never had any of my boy friends say they liked me, that is until I came home from a summer trip from out of state. Now I've got two of them telling me that they like me. Can any one help?

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by splitdecision on 10/2/2012 8:47:20 PM

 
 

What qualities do guys look for in a girl...i m supa myseterious

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by sunnydiva-girl123 on 9/2/2012 1:25:01 AM

 
 

thanks so much Smile !!! i hope this works

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by Jbug77 on 8/27/2012 2:54:06 PM

 
 

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I meet a guy at my aims class and when i tolled him i had a BF he freaked out and started dising me and my boyfriend and started braging about himself! He harasses me and asks for pictures all the time its so annoying! He also sends pictures of himself i didn't even ask for! So i thought it would be a good idea to go out with him than tell him i was cheating so he would stop talking to me, but that back fierd because he started saying stuff about how many girls he gets! He was off the wall braging! than he sent be a picture of one of the girls and she was so pretty!!! i was jealous! Frown what do i do im so confused????????????????????

 

 

hey girly, this guy sounds like bad news.  You don't want a guy who brags all the time, puts you down and harasses you with pictures of himself. So uncool! You deserve way better. Sternly tell him that you are not interested in him and tell him to stop sending you pictures. If he keeps bothering you, let an adult know and they can help get him to back off. xoxo

Lauren I.

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by Jbug77 on 8/27/2012 2:38:43 PM

 
 

Oooh. This guy would creep me out big time!

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by Gabriella123 on 8/24/2012 11:34:55 PM

 
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