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Shapewear is a term that’s used to describe tight-fitting undergarments, like Spanx, that make the body appear thinner by keeping tummies and curves tucked in and smoothed over. Spanx used to be thought of as only for older women, but now, girls as young as 13 are trying ‘em on for size, according to ABC News. For stars like Miley Cyrus and ordinary high schoolers alike, these tummy-tuckers have become an every-day article of clothing, which is damaging to more than just their self-image.

 

 

The main problem with girls relying on shapewear to feel good about their appearances is that they’re not confident with their own bodies. Even skinny girls feel like any curve is taboo, and they’re developing an unhealthy image of themselves. What’s worse is that the tight-fitting spandex is teaching them to ignore pain in order to look better. And if they don’t mind that pain of being seriously sucked in, then what’s next?

 

When teens are ignoring the pain of shapewear, they’re actually ignoring what could be a serious problem. Doctors have seen cases of gastrointestinal problems, nerve damage and bladder infections all caused by wearing shapewear. The problem is that the spandex is just too tight, and it’s squeezing their internal organs and nerves. So the bottom line? Skip the Spanx, spend some time in front of the mirror embracing the gorgeousness of your bod, imperfections and all, and show Y-O-U a whole lotta love.

 

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BY CARRIE RUPPERT ON 8/20/2012 10:28:00 PM

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What's a normal weight range for a 13 1/3 (almost 14) year old girl who is about 5 feet 2 inches? I weigh about 130 but i feel like that's alot. Am i fat? Thanx!

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by hmeyer on 1/10/2013 11:48:39 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Today was my friends birthday and I totally pigged out on cupcakes and cake and chips and like everything junky you could think of. It was really good but now I am freaking out. I used to have anorexia so I haven't eaten junk food in a while. I feel like puking all of the food I ate today out. Help! How can I calm down?

Hey girl,

Don't be so hard on yourself! It's okay to have treats on special occasions, especially one as important as a friend's birthday. As long as you are living a healthy lifestyle, you will be totally fine from one day of junk food Smile I can only imagine how tough things are for you with the anorexia, so please remember that you are not alone. If you're having thoughts about puking up your food and are afraid you'll relapse into the disorder, please please please speak with a trusted adult such as a guidance counselor, parent or doctor ASAP to help you get through what you're dealing with. You can also check out this link, which has resources about eating disorders. http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx

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by Sarah_12 on 1/5/2013 11:15:42 PM

 
 

I am 11 and 120 pounds am I fat?

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by Redhotfire on 12/16/2012 5:20:37 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!!!
Im really uncomfortable with my bod. Im 133 lbs, i have stretch marks on the sides of my stomach and thighs, and IM ONLY 11!!!!! i cant wear the clothes i like and ive tried everything to lose weight. The doc says im a little overweight (i am 5'2") but i think im fat. Im just depressed. Help Me!! Cry

 

Hey! I want more than anything for you to feel comfortable in your own skin. There are so many girls out there who feel the same way you do, but I think you are all beautiful. I know the road to loving yourself is a hard one, but you just have to accept yourself and only you can be the one to do that. I know you're strong though, because you had the courage to reach out to me. And I can personally tell you that everything's going to be ok because you are AWESOME Smile If you feel like the whole world is picking on you, then guess what? The whole world is wrong. Depression is a lot to struggle with especially at your age, but there are resources to help you, and here are some of them: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx

 

I hope this helps you. good luck to you! 


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by iheartkitties3 on 11/10/2012 12:58:22 PM

 
 

I have a stomach that sticks out and i get made fun of cause of that and, every girl in my school has a perfect bod but i dont. I dont have anyone to talk to bout this cause my mom just jokes around way to much and my sister is no exception eithier. Also i am 13 and weigh like 96 pounds but idk what to do about my stomach i suck it in everyday but it doesnt work and every guy goes look at how fat she is and stuff like that is this because i am not on a school sports team or what ??????
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