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He said, she said: Did he cheat or did she make it up?

 
 
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Last September he went camping and one of his childhood friends who happened to be a girl was there. A few weeks after he got back she friended me on Facebook and was posting a bunch of stuff about him. Long story short, she told me that he cheated on me with her, but when I asked him what they did he said that they hugged and that was it.
 
One day when we were on the phone he asked if I would be mad if he ever kissed anyone else while we were dating and I thought that was a little suspicious. This has driven me crazy ever since the day I found out. How do I get the real story?


Hmm that does sound suspicious. Either she made up the story for attention, or he's covering his butt. Both are plausible, but the odds aren't looking too good for your guy with that hypothetical kiss question. The problem is you can’t strap your BF to a lie detector test to guarantee that he’s telling the truth. Though that would certainly make this situation easier!


Sadly, since you didn’t see for yourself, you can never be fully sure that you got the real story. But the bottom line is you need a boyfriend that you can trust. If you stay with your BF, are you always going to wonder if he’s telling the truth? Will you continue worrying about whether or not he’s cheating on you with someone else? If you’re being driven crazy, then is this relationship really worth all that stress? If you feel like you can’t trust him, it may be better to fly solo. Go with your gut on this mind-boggler.
 
 

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BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 8/26/2012 12:00:00 AM

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I do homeschool and all my friends just started 6th grade at the middle school. They don't answer my calls or texts and one of them said that some of them are spreading rumors about me. I feel left out of the loop. I found out my best friend replaced me last week. There aren't a lot of kids my age in my neighborhood that I could try to be friends with either. I go to youth group at the church but nobody talks to me. I would invite friends to come over, but my parents aren't onboard with that because I have younger siblings. I feel forgotten. Any advice?

Hey girl,

Try talking to your friends at school and invite them to do stuff, even if it's not at your house -- maybe you could meet for dinner or at the mall. You can ask them directly (but not confrontationally) about the rumors, but if they say they didn't do it, give them the benefit of the doubt and believe them since they are your friends! Invite yourself to do stuff with them instead of waiting for them to ask you, and try introducing yourself to people at your youth group so that you can make new friends, too.

Meghan D.

by Baileymoose on 9/15/2012 11:21:16 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMODMOD!! So one of my closest guy friends is a year behind me but everyone is getting asked to homecoming (Im in highschool hes not) i was going to ask him if he wanted to be my backup homecoming date because i would just want to go as friends but i would want a date. is that mean? one of my friends who is also friends with him said he probably just say sure but im not sure if thats mean or not?




Hey girl, yeah, back-up date is a little harsh (at least that phrasing). Just ask him to go with you as a friend instead. He'll get the message it's not romantic but you won't have to make him feel like he's second choice (even if he is). 

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by Taffy18 on 9/3/2012 5:39:41 PM

 
 



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Ok so you all know that school is coming I start the 4th its COMING!! Anyways I have hairy black arms! I am really embarrassed and everyone says don't worry but I am!!! I know a lot of girls have it but Im still embarrassed last year I wore everyday long sleeved anything that covers my arms! I am going to 5th grade so I wanna not be embarrassed in my own skin what should I do?

 


 


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by misstomboy1 on 9/1/2012 1:32:48 PM

 
 

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Ok so i had a boyfriend and my friend told him i was weird ,and i liked him so much i really did act weird around him, but i thought he really liked me because when my best guy friend hinted that he wanred to go to the dance he got really jealous. But i ended up not going to the dance cuz i went to my cousins house in la. But i dont know if he broke up with me cuz im weird or cuz i didnt go to the dance... and its been 6 months and i cant get over him even though he is kinda rude. what should i do to get over him and why do you think he broke up with me???? Thanks!!!!!


Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes


 

Meghan D.

by avaflava11 on 8/31/2012 2:36:35 PM

 
 



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I really dont know why, but no guys have any liked me or asked me out. I really dont see why.. I consider myself pretty, I'm sweet, funny, and I try to be as as nice to people as I can. I feel really awkward when my friends talk about their boyfriends or guys who like them, cause none of that stuff has ever happened to me! I've liked guys who I thought liked me back, but they never told me or anyone else. Do you think something is wrong with me?

 

Hey girlie,

There's nothing wrong with you! It's all about timing. Think about it - two people have to come together, be attracted to each other, like each other, be around each other, have a lot in common, have the chance to talk to each other and grow closer, want a relationship, and then have enough time to develop a relationship. It's not easy! And it's super rare for the timing to work out. There's nothing wrong with you - just keep being patient and making yourself happy by picking up hobbies, joining clubs and working hard at school/sports. If you're happy on your own and not desperate for a BF, I swear that's when the guys come along. Support your friends, because you would want the same from them. It will happen for you! I know it! <33333


Lauren C.

by 99Jade86 on 8/30/2012 11:34:10 PM

 
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