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He said, she said: Did he cheat or did she make it up?

 
 
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Last September he went camping and one of his childhood friends who happened to be a girl was there. A few weeks after he got back she friended me on Facebook and was posting a bunch of stuff about him. Long story short, she told me that he cheated on me with her, but when I asked him what they did he said that they hugged and that was it.
 
One day when we were on the phone he asked if I would be mad if he ever kissed anyone else while we were dating and I thought that was a little suspicious. This has driven me crazy ever since the day I found out. How do I get the real story?


Hmm that does sound suspicious. Either she made up the story for attention, or he's covering his butt. Both are plausible, but the odds aren't looking too good for your guy with that hypothetical kiss question. The problem is you can’t strap your BF to a lie detector test to guarantee that he’s telling the truth. Though that would certainly make this situation easier!


Sadly, since you didn’t see for yourself, you can never be fully sure that you got the real story. But the bottom line is you need a boyfriend that you can trust. If you stay with your BF, are you always going to wonder if he’s telling the truth? Will you continue worrying about whether or not he’s cheating on you with someone else? If you’re being driven crazy, then is this relationship really worth all that stress? If you feel like you can’t trust him, it may be better to fly solo. Go with your gut on this mind-boggler.
 
 

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MOD MOD MOD HI I NEED HELP<3
ok so i go to an all girls high school and the guy i used to go to school with that ive liked for a while goes to an all boys up the street and hes coming to my school dance in a couple of weeks which is like halloween-themed. we've been talking the past three days for a couple hours after not talking since last year when we graduated. anyway he started the convo and askedd how i liked school and said he was happy i liked it, and that hopefully he saw me soon which is the most foward hes ever been bc hes not really into like comminicating via fb.also im moving in a couple years and he told me not to go. anyway we used to flirt like 24/7 at school and i think he kind of liked me bc we literally flirted so much! anyway so now that im seeing him soon how can i make an impression? like whats cute that i can wear and also how can i be flirty and like reignite what we had between us? thanks and do you think he might like me idk? xx -marianna

 

Hey Marianna,

That's awesome that he's been talking to you more recently! Since you've been chatting a lot, it would be totally cool to go up to him at the dance and chat. Ask him what's up, if he's having fun, who he came with, etc. Just be chill about it and go with the flow. Personally, I would even take a deep breath and ask him to dance during a slow song Smile That way, you make a great impression - you're confident, fun, interested in him, but also afterward you'll show him you have your own life (since you'll go back to your friends and have a good time). He sounds like he's interested, so use that to give you confidence! As for what to wear, go with what makes you feel comfy - skinny jeans and a sequined tank, a mini skirt and button down blouse, maxi dress. Whatever you like! Smile 


Lauren C.

by tomdaleyislife on 8/30/2012 9:30:02 PM

 
 



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The other day me and my boyfriend were hanging out and he asked me what girls want in a guy, so i told him someone sweet and romantic and stuff and then i said what do guys want? And he said sweet, cute and popular. Then he also said your not really popular your kinda in the middle. Should I break up with him? I dont really care about being popular. I like to just be me and if people like me great, if they don't i dont care but he said he likes popular girls then said i wasn't popular. Does that mean he doesn't like me?

 

hey! It just means that he's kind of inconsiderate. I think if you even kind of want to break up with someone you should. with bf's you should be totally sure you want to be with them. At the very least I think he should apologize to you. 


Helen S.

by artgirl008 on 8/28/2012 7:37:50 PM

 
 

ok, so I am so confused about guys.I always wonder why guys and I become really close and I begin to have a thing for him and it seems like he has a thing for me and I try to hint at the fact we've been really close and talking a lot. Their comment is alwayysss "I'm too busy, but don't worry I want to hangout with you" or "It's not you, my schedule just doesn't match up" We share secrets with each other; like we are so close but I can never get to the next step. I am almost 16 and I have never had a true boyfriend. Just close guy friends. Please give me some advice !

by maniheartsmakeup22 on 8/27/2012 9:01:41 PM

 
 



mod mod @kateg do you know of any articles that could help me?

 

Hey girl! Try this one: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/03/12/first-kiss-help.aspx 


Kate G.

by Ljbdaisy on 8/27/2012 12:06:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD Okay, so my boyfriend stopped calling over a month ago. I have no idea why, except that maybe me saying "I miss you" freaked him out (his response was "oh. okay.") But he had told me a ton of times that he would be lonely when I was at camp. He missed my birthday (and he knew the day) so I have no idea whether he considers us broken up or what. I just wish he would call to explain, but I used to be the one that called most of the time, and I don't want to look desperate. I have no idea what happened, and I really miss him. He was really sweet up until the time he didn't call.

 

Hey girl! Seems weird, so why don't you text him a casual "Hey, can we chat?". If he doesn't respond, there's nothing wrong with calling him to know what's up (I would say don't call him more than once, though, if he doesn't pick up).  If you don't hear from him in a week or two, I'd consider yourself a free girl and move on! xoxo 


Kate G.

by romanticbookworm13 on 8/27/2012 12:05:20 PM

 
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