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He said, she said: Did he cheat or did she make it up?

 
 
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Last September he went camping and one of his childhood friends who happened to be a girl was there. A few weeks after he got back she friended me on Facebook and was posting a bunch of stuff about him. Long story short, she told me that he cheated on me with her, but when I asked him what they did he said that they hugged and that was it.
 
One day when we were on the phone he asked if I would be mad if he ever kissed anyone else while we were dating and I thought that was a little suspicious. This has driven me crazy ever since the day I found out. How do I get the real story?


Hmm that does sound suspicious. Either she made up the story for attention, or he's covering his butt. Both are plausible, but the odds aren't looking too good for your guy with that hypothetical kiss question. The problem is you can’t strap your BF to a lie detector test to guarantee that he’s telling the truth. Though that would certainly make this situation easier!


Sadly, since you didn’t see for yourself, you can never be fully sure that you got the real story. But the bottom line is you need a boyfriend that you can trust. If you stay with your BF, are you always going to wonder if he’s telling the truth? Will you continue worrying about whether or not he’s cheating on you with someone else? If you’re being driven crazy, then is this relationship really worth all that stress? If you feel like you can’t trust him, it may be better to fly solo. Go with your gut on this mind-boggler.
 
 

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I need some tips on kissing. Can you tell me how and when the right time to kiss is? Please? Thanks do much

 

Hey girl! I can't tell you when the right time to kiss is (it's different for every relationship).  Kissing is pretty natural, so for your first kiss, just softly press your lips to the other person's and then pull back.  Don't get fancy until you're comfortable with a simple kiss. xoxo 


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by Ljbdaisy on 8/27/2012 11:51:20 AM

 
 

If it was me I would break up with him, because if you can't trust someone then you are not comfortable with them. so yeah i would say bye to him.

by j4zm09 on 8/26/2012 12:55:18 PM

 
 



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So I just started school And this year I started wearing make up and Im really trying to work on myself to be more confident and just better in everything. I want to talk to people that I wouldn't have. Im kinda having a rough time with it though. I start to question who I am and where my place is and who I want to be friends with but I don't want to leave my old friends. I guess I don't know who i am because I ALWAYS feel this longing to be somebody else. What do u think?

 

Hey girlie,

I think what you need to do is push yourself to be better (since that's what your goal has been) without trying to push yourself to be someone else. In other words, be a better YOU - don't turn yourself into something you're not. Before you make a choice, ask yourself seriously - do I like this? Is this something that expresses who I am? Even though it might scare me/make me nervous, am I comfortable with this? There's a difference between challenging yourself to be more outgoing and turning yourself into a whole new person. So every step of the way - your clothes, your music tastes, your friends, your hobbies - ask yourself if you actually like it, or you just want people to SEE that you like it. And if you remind yourself to question everything, you'll be more likely to make choices that reflect who you are. Also, don't be afraid to change - growing up is full of changes and switches in personality. And that's ok, as long as you're not forcing them or modeling yourself after someone else. You gotta be you! Smile 


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by Icecreamluver on 8/26/2012 12:02:08 PM

 
 



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Hi, I am going into sixth grade and I am so nervous! Gah! What should I do? How can I make friends who are like me (I am a dancer)? Ugh, help?!!??! I'm paranoid about everything.

 

Hey girlie,

Try to remember that EVERYONE is nervous! Going to a new school isn't easy for anyone, but you'll get the hang of it after a little while of being there. First, remember why you're there - to learn. Work hard, raise your hand in class, do your homework, ask questions if you need it, etc. Be bold in your academics! Next, be outgoing. Join a new club or sport similar to what you love to do, sit at a new lunchtable, talk to the girl who has the locker next to yours, etc. All of these things will help you settle in faster because you're meeting more people, doing new things, and making the most out of your time! <3 We also have a book about surviving middle school - click on the link below to learn more, because it could really help to prep you for the first day! Smile

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/07/07/What-Every-Middle-School-Girl-Needs-To-Know.aspx?cp=all 


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by WinnieGirlie on 8/26/2012 11:03:09 AM

 
 

Wow i think they r cheating

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