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I REALLY like this guy that is in 9th grade and I’m in 7th, so I hardly ever get to see him. But we talked to each other a lot at band camp. I want to get to know him better, but the only time we see each other is during band. How do I get him to like me and how do I find a way to spend more time with him?

Hey girl! If you really think that you two have a shot at making it, just talk to him! Do you guys have any inside jokes from band camp, or any mutual friends? Chat up the cutie during band, and see if he’s interested. If you’re bold, try to organize a band hangout—a trip to the movies, or grabbing some fro-yo after practice. It’ll give you two lots of time to talk and spend time together without the pressure of being alone. Don’t get nervous; just be your awesome self. There’s no way he won’t like you once he gets to know you.

I’m not going to lie to you though, age differences are tough—especially when he's in high school and you're still in middle school. He may be embarrassed to admit that he likes you because you’re younger, and you may feel weird around his older buds. If you hardly get to see him now, it probably won’t get easier to hang out even if you two start dating. I’d say go for it, but be careful and stay on the lookout. There are awesome guys everywhere, and you might miss the hottie in homeroom because you’re so focused on the out-of-reach high schooler.

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BY ALLIE DUNCAN ON 8/25/2012 9:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, he's too old for me

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hey mod!! i hope you remember my stitch from last week? well, it kinda went a little forward...we're having this holiday for a whole week and i finally asked my boy for his no. and he gave happily!later that day i texted him but he replied pretty late saying he went for tuts! i was like yea, studies first!and i donno how but i even told him that i like him! and i asked him whether he likes me and he said he wont answer! after alot of struggling, he finally said that he doesnt like me that way, he just likes me a sis!and thats why he wasnt telling coz he didnt want me to feel bad.we were cool in a few mins chatting over songs but after that we didnt text so much, i mean we hardly ever talked and i kept texting him to text back! but he takes his own sweet time!ps.i agreed to be his sis and he says that he might go out with me but he needs to know me very well b4 that! and what should i talk to him about?should i wait for him to answer back patiently or keep texting? HELP!!

hey! texting's cool, but you might move things along faster if you actually call him or speak to him in person. Then at least you'd get answers right away. For convos just keep asking him questions and let the chatting happen naturally. good luck!

Helen S.

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by sprinkles1206 on 10/27/2012 2:43:45 PM

Mod!! Help! Okay so i have a crush on an 8th grader and he somehow cane to know it. His friemds teased me alot in te corridors and while goin abck home! The rumor spread so much that i had to tell him dat i dont like him.we didnt tallk for like 4 days after that. When i told him that i dont like him, instead of making a reaction or somethin he just said that he had my no and one of my friends gave it to him. But when i asked my friend why she gabe it to him, she said that she didnt! I am so damn confused! We didnt even talk for like 4 days after that! We passed each othr many times in school but he kinda ignored me and so did i. Suddenly, today in d afternoon, he waves at me and shows his ice lollie with an amazingLY CUTE SMILE!! I was so overwhelmed!
P.s: when he knew that i like him, he nvr ignored me!! But when i told him that i dont, he nvr used to talk to me but i alwys used to notic him starin at me! ;) what dus this mean?!

Hey girly, I totally remember your sitch from last week. Glad he's not ignoring you anymore! Just play it casual and stop ignoring this dude. Say hi in the hallway or whenever you pass him and make casual talk about school or sports and see where things go. See if you can get things back to the way they used to be and if he likes you, maybe more will come of it. If not, at least you have your friend back. It's no fun being ignored! Good luck. xoxo

Lauren I.

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by sprinkles1206 on 10/22/2012 9:48:08 AM

MOD!!! I don't know what to think. I am a freshman, and young for my grade and there is this really hot junior in my cooking class (@ school). A couple of weeks ago he and i (and 2 other people) were put in a group to work on a project, and the whole time he asked me a lot of questions. I'm a figure skater and he mentioned Blades of Glory, and jokingly commented on being my skating partner and asked a lot about that. He also plays varsity football, and mentioned that is should go to a game. Then the teacher came by and basically accused him of flirting and he got really embarrassed. The next class he asked me again if i was going to the game that night and i said no, and he brushed it off. Then when we were getting put into groups he turned around and asked if i thought we'd be in the same group and i awkwardly said the odds were no. Then last class i over heard him talking to someone about messing with a freshman girl. he only talks to me ever other class now. What's up with this.

Hey girl,

He might have been flirting with you, or he might have just wanted to get to know you as friends since you're going to be working together a lot. If you have to keep working on the project together, you'll have to keep getting to know him as friends anyway, and you could also talk to him outside of class to try getting to know him. Either way, at least you have a new friend!

Meghan D.

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by skaterica on 10/19/2012 7:35:55 PM

hey mod, i really need help about something! okay so i really like this guy in 8th and he knew it (somehow)...he used to talk to me like normal and never ignored me till the rumor spread so much and i had to tell him that i didnt like him! instead of making a surprised reaction, he just coolly told me that he had my no and whther i was allowed to text guys! i didnt really reply well but he left saying that one of my friends gave him my no! but since that day he didnt talk to me properly! he ignored me alot but seemd to follow me evrywhere! i also caught him a no of time looking at me but then he just looks awy! i wanted to ask him for his no. so that we could text but i didnt get a single chance to talk to him! im so sad! the truth is that i cant stop thinking about him! i keep daydreaming and got screwed in math class 2ice!help mod! does this mean that he likes me and should i tell him that i really like him and i lied the other day! HELP!
p.s all this happened only a few days back.

Hey girly, this is a tricky sitch. The fact that he said he had your number and asked if you were allowed to text guys does seem like he liked you, but since you didn't answer his question (and said you didnt like him) maybe he now thinks that you don't like him and don't want him to text you. The next time you see him alone, (not in a big group of friends) walk right up to him and say "hey, wern't you going to text me?" or "since you haven't used my number yet, mind if I get yours" And then go from there. As for math class, pay attention! haha. I know it's hard but getting a bad grade in math def won't make anything easier! Good luck, girly. xoxoxo

Lauren I.

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by sprinkles1206 on 10/19/2012 4:03:01 AM