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Dave: So they can go out with cheerleaders. Just kidding.
 
Bill: Sheesh, Dave, no way. I dump nice girls for supermodels. (Kidding, too.) Guys date girls for lots of reasons, not all of them, um, nice. Guys who only date “hot” girls (I call those guys losers; Dave prefers “lucky”) are likely insecure and not cool enough to look beyond the superficial. Instead of dating fun, kind girls with a lot of achievements, some guys look for flash, even if the odds of a successful relationship are slim. But not all guys. There are definitely plenty of nice guys who would love to spend time with a great girl. Unfortunately, you’d probably dump them.
 
 

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okay so i just started high school and its the third week and the first week i saw this really good looking guy, but since he was an upperclassman i figured i had no chance but he rides my bus! i was happy cuz i least i could c him then last week he started talking to me about my friend (he obviously liked her) so i told her and she said she didnt like him so i could go for it... so everyday i talk to him on the bus and he is really funny and has a great personality and stuff but im still kinda shy because sometimes he does joke around like "oh she is a freshman be careful of your language" like i am some little kid. so should i go for him? sorry it was so long but i need an answer fast befor i run out of things to talk about with him thanks <3

 

Hey PeytonGL, yeah I think you should. From what you're telling me it sounds like you guys had a connection. It's always best to start off as friends anyway. Xoxo


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by PeytonGL on 9/6/2012 11:28:35 PM

 
 

Haha, I'm a cheerleader and I get called reallllllly mean names by guys....

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by fungirl123 on 9/5/2012 3:32:59 PM

 
 



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ok so i like this guy and we had a "thing for each other" last summer, but since we were on seperate teams for school, we lost touch. then i found out that at lunch during the school year, the guy i liked would go up to my best friend and say things like, "Hey girlfriend!" Or, "so when's our date?" when i heard that he did that, i decided to give up on liking him. that was going well and i wasn't even thinking about him but now i find out that he is on my team this year and in most of my classes! and everytime i think about him i get butterflies in my stomach and i get the feeling that i still like him. so my question is, should i let him have a chance? or should i forget about him altogether and look for someone else? and if i should give him a chance, how do i get his attention and show him that i like him? sorry this was so long but if you could answer this asap because school starts tomorrow and im freaking out!

 

I think you should just keep your mind open and see what happens. You never know what being back at school could bring! I always believe good things come to those who are open to the opportunity. So make yourself open! as for getting his attention you should talk to him! That's all it really takes. Just be yourself! Good luck girly. xoxo kerra 


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by emcee1 on 9/4/2012 10:02:45 PM

 
 



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So this guy likes me and i like him but he has been ignoring me so i wanted to know for sure by trying to get him jealous.
anyway, his friend has been spying on me and telling him stuff and its been irritating me but then i thought i'd use it to my advantage...
I made a plan with my friend that when his friend is spying on us i'll talk about a guy i met and how i miss him and that he lives thousands of miles away. (i made that up)
So then his friend went to my crush and i saw them talking and he looked at me. Afterwards he stared at me too. He looked kind of uncertainly at me.
And now I know that he does like me but i'm not sure if what i did was a good idea... like is it bad?
He probably thinks I don't like him that much anymore... Frown
The problem is hes really shy and I am too so we don't really ralk...
Can you please give me advice on this?? I don't really know what to do now o.O
Thanks a lot!




Hey girl!

It's normal to want to make a guy jealous, but it usually just ends up hurting both you and your crush in the end. He probably does suspect that you no longer like him as much, so you should definitely try and explain. Just tell him that you were shy, but you really like him and you thought that if you made him jealous he might be more tempted to make a move. I'm sure if he likes you as much as you like him, he'll understand. 
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by imblonde5678 on 9/4/2012 11:51:09 AM

 
 

Cheerleaders are not always mean and stupid. I was a cheerleader up until this year when I had to pick between soccer and cheer leading. Im a straight a student and I think that I am very nice. Its kind of sad to hear these stereo types when u dont fit them!

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by kaycris on 9/4/2012 11:09:00 AM

 
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