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It seems girls are much more open about their opinions of guys. If a girl likes someone, she tells him. But guys either keep it to themselves or don’t have any opinions at all. Almost every guy in my class has had a girl tell him she likes him, but very few girls have. Is my class full of shy guys?


Dave: Your class is full of normal guys. Maybe it’s the girls who have mucked things up in this case. I’m assuming your class is pretty evenly split between guys and girls. If every girl in your class has told a guy she likes him, that doesn’t leave a guy with much choice about which girl to pursue since they’ve all expressed their opinions. So what’s a guy to do? Keep his mouth shut, something that’s pretty easy for most guys.


Bill: There are two theories of male emotional development: Evolution and Creation. The Evolution Theory says guys are actually very evolved emotionally, so evolved that they take rejection much harder than girls. The Creation Theory holds that guys were created like a lump of clay, and that’s about it. Emotional thoughts just don’t occur to them. Either way, you get a species that doesn’t deal openly with feelings. Best bet is to feed them regularly, keep them in front of a sports channel or video game, and lower your expectations.
 
 

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Ok so my friends asked me who i like and i said his name. So i asked one of them he doesnt know a lot to ask him who he liked in the grade but not to mention my name. She goofed. She told me he said aw man, another 1! So the next day he put his hand on my shoulder and asked How many sarahs are in the grade. I said 2 or 3, being my honest answer he said nono i mean how many saraahs are in the grade his friends started giggling(immature geeks) so i said have to go bye and ran away. Ever since i have been avoiding him and i miss him, plus he stares at me and i sometimes stare back but i think one of them told him at lunch cause he started giving me his eeevill smile. My friends gave me good advice but i wanted to hear from you. I also wanted to know if he likes me he touces me teases me and stares at me my one friend thinks he likes me but my other one says i dont have a shot cause he's not my type. Thanks in advanced. PEACE!




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by sarahsprinkles265 on 9/18/2012 4:24:03 PM

 
 



I could never imagine telling my rush that i like him.... I seriously would become petrified....the only guys i kinda sorta flirt with... O, actually its more like im just hyper and goof around a lot......... But anyways, the only guys i can "flirt" with are guys i dont like.
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Is this weird, and does itmake me a bad person/someonewho plays with others feelings? cuz i dont try to flirt with them its just how i act, really hyper and goofy..... thanks!!




Hey girl, not really. Just be sure you aren't leading them on (making them believe you want to date them when you don't). Otherwise, there's a very thin line between teasing and flirting, and it sounds like you're just doing the former there.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by LilyLookALike on 9/17/2012 8:37:14 PM

 
 

@ sarahsprinkles265 In response to your question, I think you should just lay low for a few days while deciding what to do next. But don't wait to long!

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by Glitterheart16 on 9/17/2012 8:30:41 PM

 
 



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o.o sooooo does that mean im sort of like a guy? XD im not very open with my feelings and im really shy, if you want to be my friend, YOU have to be the one who says hi. i dont really fit in with girls and have many guy friends... one time i acctually dresses like a guy! the only thing that seperates me is i have a crush on a guy (i hardly talk to him because im just SO shy and scared of being rejected) and most of the time i dress like a girl...




Hey girl, you're not a guy at all because of that! You're just more reserved, and that's totally OK — I know a lot of girls AND guys like that (my sister is exactly like you, and she's very much female). Just stick to who you are and don't sweat what everyone else does or what it seems like girls your age are supposed to do. You're just fine!

xoxo 
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by lilacmoonstream on 9/17/2012 8:25:16 PM

 
 

Puh-leez. "If a girl likes a guy, she tells him!" :O So not true for most girls!

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by WinnieGirlie on 9/17/2012 8:15:43 PM

 
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