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7 things you should (and shouldn't) expect for your first kiss

 
 

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First kisses can be slightly nerve-wracking yet oh-so exciting! Know what to expect for your big moment, so that you can skip the worrying and go right to the wow.

 

Do expect butterflies.

Whether you’re kinda anxious, super excited or you just really like your sweetie, getting butterflies in your stomach is totally normal. Take a deep breath, relax and enjoy the moment.

 

Don’t expect pressure.

You’re first kiss should be sweet and romantic and…a kiss! Your guy shouldn’t get pushy or anticipate anything more.

 

Do expect a little awkwardness.

It’s no big deal to get a bit nervous, bump noses or be a little out of sync. You’ll get the feel for it with time.

 

Don’t expect it to be dry.

Mouths aren’t dry, so don’t be surprised if you get a little bit of saliva along with your kiss. If it feels more dog-licking-your-face than aww-inducing rom-com kiss, slow things down to minimize the slobber.

 

Do expect tongue.

A first kiss definitely doesn’t have to involve any sort of tongue invasion, but it’s a good idea to be prepared just in case.

 

Don’t expect perfection.

I’m sure you’ve seen tons of flawless first kisses in romantic movies, but this is real life! If your first kiss was a little less than wow, try it again; kissing makes perfect.

 

Do expect it to be special.

Despite any first-kiss jitters, your first kiss should be memorable.  Choose a sweetie who treats you great and your first kiss is sure to be special, not regrettable.
 
 

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BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 9/30/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, pressure to get physical

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I want to make the guy I like my boyfriend! I've never had a boyfriend before though. I don't know how to do anything! I'm so shy and can barely talk to guys. I've been trying more and more lately though. He has done things like cared and and asked me about my self (once, haha. He asked if I did any sports. I told him and he said I bet I'm better than you, haha) I think he acts similar to everyone though...so, how can I, I don't know, talk to him I guess? Thanks.







Talking to him will definitely help! He needs to know you first! Try asking him question about himself! You could ask him about his classes, or family or even friends! These are good conversation starters that can lead to bigger conversations. You have to start somewhere! Maybe later on, you guys could exchange phone number and even start texting!
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by Laangelita23 on 10/1/2012 3:28:53 PM

 
 

My "first" didn't feel right because he planned it all out so I don't count that as my first, it didn't feel magical just two lips, it was gross. They should feel magical so if they dont then he's not for you.

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by TeamAlice33 on 10/1/2012 8:04:13 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD -- I feel like in movies and shows and books even if it's their first kiss they always know what to do! When I have my first kiss, I'm scared I'm not going to know what to do and I'll panic and then the guy won't like me or something! I know the last part of that is probably a little more extreme (he's kissing me - he must like me), but I'm really afraid I'll panic and freak out and be completely confused! Someone told me there's no "way to kiss" but there must be! I have no idea what to do...what if he tries to tongue?! I have no idea how to do that! I probably shouldn't be worrying....but I am! It could happen at any time and I want to be prepared so I don't freak out! When I'm nervous (like before public speaking or doing something that I don't usually do, or even when I talk to guys which is probably lame) I start to shake and can't breathe well...so I don't really want that to be the reason I'm "breathless"... lol. Help me please!? thanks!

 

Hey laughlots, no worries calm down lol. I know you've heard that kissing will come to you naturally in the moment, but it will trust me. I was sooo nervous for my first kiss but I started to feel it and then everything fell into place. Believe me everything will work out. Xoxo Smile  


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by laughlots on 9/30/2012 11:31:01 PM

 
 

haven't had my first kiss yet and i'm a freshman...i'm waiting for the perfect guy <3

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by myfatsquirrel on 9/30/2012 10:26:00 PM

 
 



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so the guy i like goes to a different school then me. My friend somewhat talks to him, and she told him he should ask me to his dance. He said no because he was going with friends (i dont know any of his friends btw) then she was persistant and told him he should go to ours (theyre on different nights). Then he said he had to work that day. He didnt ask me about it or anything, but hes a little more talkative to me then usual, and i see him looking at me a lot. oh and Not being creepy or anything, but i was just on facebook on newsfeed i saw there were pictures of him with another girl with like the same colors on and stuff (basically matching). I was wondering if you think he's worth sticking with and waiting for something to happen, or to just find someone new because he may have a thing with someone else?? Im not quite sure.. Thanks a bunch Smile

 

Hey Cherries51, I think you should just wait it out before making a decision. Just because you like him doesn't mean you can't talk to other guys. It's okay to make a lot of friends right? Hope this helps! Xoxo


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