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7 things you should (and shouldn't) expect for your first kiss

 
 

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First kisses can be slightly nerve-wracking yet oh-so exciting! Know what to expect for your big moment, so that you can skip the worrying and go right to the wow.

 

Do expect butterflies.

Whether you’re kinda anxious, super excited or you just really like your sweetie, getting butterflies in your stomach is totally normal. Take a deep breath, relax and enjoy the moment.

 

Don’t expect pressure.

You’re first kiss should be sweet and romantic and…a kiss! Your guy shouldn’t get pushy or anticipate anything more.

 

Do expect a little awkwardness.

It’s no big deal to get a bit nervous, bump noses or be a little out of sync. You’ll get the feel for it with time.

 

Don’t expect it to be dry.

Mouths aren’t dry, so don’t be surprised if you get a little bit of saliva along with your kiss. If it feels more dog-licking-your-face than aww-inducing rom-com kiss, slow things down to minimize the slobber.

 

Do expect tongue.

A first kiss definitely doesn’t have to involve any sort of tongue invasion, but it’s a good idea to be prepared just in case.

 

Don’t expect perfection.

I’m sure you’ve seen tons of flawless first kisses in romantic movies, but this is real life! If your first kiss was a little less than wow, try it again; kissing makes perfect.

 

Do expect it to be special.

Despite any first-kiss jitters, your first kiss should be memorable.  Choose a sweetie who treats you great and your first kiss is sure to be special, not regrettable.
 
 

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BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 9/30/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, pressure to get physical

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I have liked this guy, and he liked me last year too. We went out for a day but then he broke up with me. I didn't really care since we laughed about it an hour later. I still like him this year though! It's been a whole summer and I can't stop liking him! He's in all my classes and I dropped my books yesterday... He helped me pick them up!(Cheesy, I know, But it happened!) Everyone, including his best friend says he likes me but I don't know what to do! Help!

 

Hey girlie, talk to him about it. Tell him that you missed him this summer and you think you might still like him. It's a hard conversation to have, but then you'll either know that he likes you back or you'll be able to move on to someone new. But it'll be easier knowing and you'll feel better about it. 


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Thanks, Lynae, but I don't have a cell or a facebook! What could I say to him to get him alone, without it seeming akward? Thanks again!
~mypeeps112

 

What about instant messaging? You could im him and ask if he'd like to hang sometime. How is that? Xoxo 


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by mypeeps112 on 9/30/2012 11:51:14 AM

 
 

honestly i dont care for this stuff....gross!

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by bendybarbie2000 on 9/30/2012 11:42:54 AM

 
 



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I was wanting to ask my crush out, but I don't know how... Any ideas? Thanks! ~mypeeps112

 

Hey mypeeps12, you could always text or Facebook message him. If you really want to get creative leave a note on his desk or in his locker or with one of his friends. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


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I got into a big fight with one of my ex bffs. She sent my a pic of her and my crush (who told me he liked me) almost kissing. I asked why she did that because i never did anything mean to her and she said she sent it just because she was mad I wasn't at that football, and she said that I'm social deprived loser with no friends. And she also said my crush hates me. I asked him if he really did, and he said no, he only went along with it because he was mad i wasn't there. How can I get her to stop being mean, and should i forgive my crush, i want to, but i also don't want to.

 

Hey kenny_peace_panda22, I think everyone deserves a second chance, but only if they actually feel bad for doing what they did. If they both seemed genuine in their apologies I would forgive them. So now you gotta decide what's the right thing to do. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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