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The Dirt: Why are guys so fickle with their feelings?

His answer: “Yeah, I’d definitely say guys change their minds on liking someone,” reveals Will, 16. “He might not have put any thought into it before, he could have been involved with someone else when you asked last, or it’s possible he’s gotten to know you better.”

Decoded: It’s definitely possible that he could have changed his mind—we are human after all. Crushes usually develop after you’ve spent a ton of time with another person and gotten to know them. Maybe he now sees you in a completely different light, or maybe he was getting over a rough break-up. Any number of things could have sparked his interest in you.

Your move: The important thing is that you weren't waiting around for someone to change their mind (right?). If you’re still into him, go for it. If you’ve moved on, so will he eventually.

BY ALEXIS GAVRELIS ON 9/28/2012 12:00:00 AM

Hey chica,

Well, she's still the same person as she was before you knew, isn't she? Why should you treat it any differently? She chose to confide in you because she trusted you and thought that you wouldn't treat her differently. Just because she's bisexual doesn't mean that she'll come for you next or that it'll change any aspect of your friendship, it just means that right now she likes a girl and wants to talk to you about her the same way she would a boy. I wouldn't worry about the religion of it, after all, it is her religion.

In a week or two, you would even give her sexuality a second thought. Jordan S.

MOD MOD MOD!
I am in 6th grade, and there is a guy I like. I told my friend, and she emailed me saying that it's not fair and I'm not allowed to like him because SHE likes him and it's not okay. Ugh what do I do?

Hey girl,

Having the same crush as your friend is never an easy sitch...check out this post for an answer on what you should do! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/02/Boy-or-bestie.aspx

Meghan D.

by WinnieGirlie on 9/28/2012 11:20:57 PM

My poor ex-crush

by Gabriella123 on 9/28/2012 9:08:05 PM

MOD!PLEASE?!
One of my friends who I've known for a long time and who is one my closest friends ever told me a HUGE secret yesterday. We were hanging out at her house when she was writing something on an iPad. It read, "Random. I have a gf." I looked at her like it was a joke, but then I asked if she was serious. She said yes. Her mom doesn't know, and she has only done skype with the girl. She is still the same person, but I can't believe it. She was never girly had never really worn anything that would make her look girly. It never bothered me, but now that she told me she's bisexual, I'm scared. Only me and maybe another one of our friends know. I am not sure what to do because I don't know if this is against our religion we have as Catholics, and I'm afraid to bring up the topic with her. Please help, I'm a bit scared

Hey chica,

Well, she's still the same person as she was before you knew, isn't she? Why should you treat it any differently? She chose to confide in you because she trusted you and thought that you wouldn't treat her differently. Just because she's bisexual doesn't mean that she'll come for you next or that it'll change any aspect of your friendship, it just means that right now she likes a girl and wants to talk to you about her the same way she would a boy. I wouldn't worry about the religion of it, after all, it is her religion.

In a week or two, you would even give her sexuality a second thought. Jordan S.

by alexia_directioner<3 on 9/28/2012 7:31:56 PM

I hate when guys do that!

by j4zm09 on 9/28/2012 5:37:29 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
SO my friends sweet 16 is tonight..it's going be raining and it's all outside, don't ask me why they haven't postponed it..it's gonna be FREEZING too (UGH). Anyway since it's raining should my make-up be waterproof? I don't have any waterproof mascara so I'm gonna have to dart over to the store..just wondering if that would be a good call?

Hey girl! Your friend will probably set up tents or bring the party inside if it's raining. But if I were you, I would definitely go waterproof! Also, you might want to think about putting your hair up. That way it won't get frizzy and will stay fab and secure all night.

xxx

Katie L.

by maggie183 on 9/28/2012 4:01:21 PM

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is modding

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The Dirt: Why are guys so fickle with their feelings?

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