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My ex moved on so quickly! Did he ever like me?


 

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My ex and I dated for over a year. He recently broke up with me, and not even two weeks later he had another girlfriend. Does that mean that he wasn't all that into me from the beginning?

 

If you guys dated for over a year, he had to have liked you! There is no way of really knowing why he started dating another girl in such a short period. And no point in trying to guess. Teenage guys do not really think before acting and for all you know this could be his way of coping with what happened between the two of you. Like, he doesn't want to deal with his emotions so for him, the only way to move on is date someone else.
 

As for you, the best advice I can give you is to not try and find a reason for his actions, because you are only hurting yourself in the end. Try focusing on something else, like your friends and family! They are always here for you and will give you the support you need.

BY MAILYSE FERBER ON 10/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A

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I'm so hung up on this guy, I might even be in love! Pleas help? Frown
;So I met a guy this summer at a camp we both work at. At first I saw him from afar and I was like, 'Damn he's fine.' And then I met him and he's really cool. (and 5'11"!) The thin is, he's a TOTAL player! He had around 3 girlfriends in the part of the summer that I knew him, and I'm sure he had more before that. Plus, he was totally flirting with me and making (really) extreme (and inappropriate) advances towards behind his girlfriends' backs! And he made them in ways that made me flirt back, even though i was friends with his girlfriend! One of his other ex-girlfriends who I love to death even told me I need to forget. I know he's a jerk and totally bad for me but I can't forget about him! He's so charming! We have amazing conversations! The worst part is though, that I haven't seen him since August and I'm still completely obsessed. Please help?!

 

Hey girlie, I know that it's hard when you really like him, but I think you need to stay away from him. You'll probably end up getting hurt if anything happens between the two of you. Stop talking to him so much and start talking to other boys. The best way to get over a crush is to find a new one. 


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by wickedisme on 11/4/2012 5:36:31 PM

 
 

SAME HERE SISTER!

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by AarynJ on 10/13/2012 3:51:49 PM

 
 

I dont think guys know what they want. Sometime they just want a change and that may have been why he started dating so fast. I dont think its fair but things sometimes go that way.

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by fashionqn on 10/11/2012 4:25:43 PM

 
 



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question, y do guys never ask a girl to a dance like there has to be a fling before they ask somebody? they never ask somebody because they want a nice girl for a date for a dance. y also can't guys even notice the girls that spend on a ton of time on trying to look semi-presentable? and why oh why won't guys ever go for the girls not part of their social group?




Hey girl, because it's hard to ask people outside of their social circle. They don't know them as well and it's like asking a stranger point blank. They don't want to get rejected so it's much easier to just go for the friend who's a sure yes than the nice girl they don't know as well who may be a yes or a no.

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by Icecreamluver on 10/8/2012 7:59:09 PM

 
 

Violence is never the answer! You are both wrong and should maybe talk it out next time! mailyse f.

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by PuppyCT on 10/8/2012 2:55:34 PM

 
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