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my bgf never talks to me anymore. He has a few classes with me and i see him in the hall all the time at school. I try to start convos with him but he never really listens. Ive tried talking to him about it but nothing changes. what do i do? also, he has a new friend who acts like his gf while she knows he has a gf. Its really annoying when this girl flirts with him because i dont want him or his gf who is my friend to get hurt by the other girl. I don't like like him btw i just dont want them to get hurt.

Hey girly, you've already tried talking to your BGF so I don't think there is much more you can do. Sometimes as we grow up, we just drift away from some of our friends. And that's okay. It's totally okay to keep bringing up a conversation or saying hi to him in the hallway, but try not to force your friendship. He should also be making an effort, and if he doesn't, try spending time with your girls or be on the lookout for other guy friends to add to your circle. Spreading your horizons is always a good thing and the more friends you have, the more distracted you'll be and the more fun you'll have. As for this other girl who is being too flirty...being friendly is completely fine, but flirting is not cool. A girl should never try to snag away anther girl's BF. If he starts flirting back and/or things get out of hand between the two of them, definetly talk to your friend about this messy sitch. Good luck, babe. 

modmodmodmod hes in my church group if that helps.....we see each other 2 times a week

 

Oh okay. Maybe when church is over start a convo. Ask how he enjoyed the service and what his plans are for he week, then ease into getting his number. You could say something like "Hey can i get your number so that we can meet up for church together." How's that?