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I'm addicted to videogames! Help me hit the "off" button

 

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I’m a computer game/videogame/TV junkie. Every time I go on the computer, I become a zombie. I shut out my parents and friends, and they get really angry when they have to pull me off the computer screen to talk. I want to save up for an Xbox Kinect, but I know my parents will find me glued to the screen 24/7. I really want to get over this bad habit.

 

Dear Game Zombie,

Since you know you’re too glued to the tube, forget your Xbox. It’s easier to resist purchasing it than to resist turning it on each day. When friends are over, keep the computer and TV off—at least for the first hour or two. Do homework or bake pumpkin muffins or take a walk or play a board game. You can hardly blame a friend for being offended if you ask her over and then shut her out. Can you tell yourself you won’t turn on TV or the computer until a particular hour? Can you reward yourself for trying to break what is indeed a bad habit? When your hand goes for the “on” button, can you turn around and do something else instead—at least sometimes? Answer: Yes, you can! (P.S. You’re not alone. Lots of girls—and adults—spend too much time staring at screens.)
 
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/12/2012 3:52:00 PM

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help i have a crush on this boy but im only 12 so i cant have a boyfriend yet but i want to be his friend. He is really shy so he doesnt really talk alot. i sit next to him in language arts so we get to talk when the teacher says to turn and talk. How can i start talking to him?

Hey girl,

There's nothing wrong with being friends with guys! Talking in class when you're supposed to be discussing the assignment is a great way to break the ice, so you could try continuing that conversation outside of class by asking how his weekend was, how he's liking the class, etc. to get to know him a little better. It will be less awkward once you know each other more!

Meghan D.

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by pandasrock292 on 10/19/2012 7:21:27 PM

 
 

I have the book "All the stuff your sister never told you"!!!!

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by gracezoom144 on 10/17/2012 6:59:35 PM

 
 



mod mod mod mod! mod mod mod mooooooooood!
ok so i have a couple of friends in my group and theres this one girl who is really negative and not many people want to be near her. She invited herself to our lunch table last year and she has driven one of my friends away and i miss her soo much! what do i do?




Hey girl, try getting your old friend back by inviting her personally to sit with you. If this new girl makes negative remarks, ask her politely to stop if it's really bothering you and others or try to change the subject and ignore her. Chances are the girl just wants a reaction. If she doesn't get it, she'll stop because it's no longer an effective strategy to.

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Alyssa B.

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by pandasrock292 on 10/15/2012 8:36:21 PM

 
 



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I don't really like to think negatively, but a girl was telling me how ugly she is and how the only think she likes about herself is her eyes then I said, "Not really, nobody's ugly some people just have ugly personalities" then she rolled her eyes and said "Easy for you too say, your-" then I asked her "I'm what?" she said "Never mind" what did she mean by that?

 

Hey hinatagal, she probably thought you were pretty. She was mostly thinking it's easy for you to not think you're ugly, because you're not. No worries she didn't mean anything harsh. Hope this helps! Xoxo


Lynae P.

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by hinatagal on 10/14/2012 10:42:35 PM

 
 

the only thing i'm glued to is my computer... and maybe this peice of paper stuch on my finger! HAHAHA

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Join my club: Operation: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Our mission is to post anonymous notes in public places for other people to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!! In my club, we will have daily quotes that you can put on post- its to uplift girls. We also give advice on how you can make your day better, and everyone else’s day better! So please join our uplifting club so we can tell everyone that we are beautiful the way we are!

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by heather99 on 10/13/2012 9:44:44 AM

 
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