You’re crushing on the owner of the locker right next to
yours and you’re dying to make a move, but before you make any hasty decisions
check out these signals that say he’s not worth the extra time spent in front
of the mirror.
He tries to change
You shouldn’t want anything to do with anyone that tries to
change who you are. If you’re team Jacob, don’t let someone force you into
being team Edward! If your crush is really into you then he should be crushing
on everything about you. Period.
He makes promises he
Forgetting to shoot a quick goodnight text is one thing, but
if he’s constantly breaking plans you guys made together then it’s time to say
He only talks to you
We’ve all been that girl with the silly smile on her face
after reading a cute text from our crush, but if that’s the only way he
communicates with you—he’s not worth it. Face to face conversation is key when
it comes to building a relationship.
He flirts with
If he’s putting the moves on every girl in homeroom that’s
one huge red flag that says “not boyfriend material.”
You’re always the one
Constantly having to start the conversation (and keep it
going) is exhausting! If he’s not putting in the effort, neither should you.
He ignores you in
front of his friends.
If you become strangers every time his best buds are around
it’s time to move on because if he prefers blabbing about basketball more than
he likes hanging with you, he is so not worth the effort.
He doesn’t like your
Your girls are the one’s who have always got your back and
if a guy can’t accept them then you can’t easily accept him.
He doesn’t make you
The bottom line is: your crush should make you happy, and if
he isn’t then it’s time to send him packing!
BY ALEXIS GAVRELIS ON 10/20/2012 12:00:00 AM
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