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I’ve gone out with this guy a few times, but it never worked out, even though we have so much in common. Seems when we’re a couple, we don’t talk. When we’re not a couple, we talk all the time. He’s sweet, cute and funny. Is it possible for us to be “friends with benefits”?


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Not a good idea. Think about how you might feel if you two were “friends with benefits” and then he asked out another girl for Saturday night? Bad, probably. So why settle? If you two want to go out, make an effort to blast through the awkwardness. If you really aren’t compatible as a couple, then be friends. But don’t complicate matters by adding making-out to the mix. The “benefits” you refer to will feel better with someone you are comfortable enough sharing your emotions with, not just your kisses.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/17/2012 10:00:00 AM

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I'm kind of wanting to shave under my arms, but I know it's a big responsibility, and I'm a dancer, so if I don't do it for a few days, I'll be all gross! I know it's a big commitment, and I can't decide. I have blonde hair, and the hair currently there is blonde. Will it grow back brown? Ugh! I can't decide!

 

Hey girly, if the hair under there makes you uncomfortable, then go ahead and shave it. You'll probably end up doing it eventually anyway, right? Though, it could grow back a darker color, I'm not really sure. But really, shaving under your arms is no bigger responsibility than shaving your legs but since it's a smaller area, it takes less time. Depending on your growth and the color, you might end up having to shave once every other day or once a week. If your not sure if your ready, put the subject to rest and revisit it in a week and see how you feel. There's no rule and its completely up to you. And you don't have to decide this second. Feel free to talk to mom, an aunt, or an older sis.  Good luck!

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I have a few questions about shaving armpits.
1. Does it reduce underarm sweating?
2. If you are a beginner with sensitive skin, what razor is the best?
Thanks! I tried posting before, and it didnt get answered, ever.

 

Hey girl, I'm not sure if it will reduce under arm sweating, but it will illiminate sweat from sticking to hair under there and make you feel cleaner. Use a sharp razor and you'll be less likely to get a tug and pull effect. Make sure your underarms are wet and soapy before you start and just go slow at first till you get the hang of it. Sorry your post wasn't answered before, girly. So glad you got through. xoxox

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