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i have really close guy friend. key word friend and i cant think of him any other way but lately i have. hes always there when i need him and always cheers me up when im up set or sad. I cant like him for i guess you could say work purposes and you know it would look bad on me. but i cant stop thinking about him and its driving me crazy. Can someone help me sort out my feelings or at least give me a way to stop thinking of him like that?

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by musiclover1516 on 11/6/2012 9:15:07 PM

 
 

Since I got my crushes # we text every so often, every Friday or so. I obviously am really happy about it but for some reason the convo always gets steered towards the weather, probably the worst thing in the history of texting to chat about. He just like all of the sudden asks if its raining at my house, too, even though we live like a half hour away, or he asks if its pretty warm over here. He's so much more interesting in real life, though, and I so don't get it! How am I supposed to steer the convo to something interesting like football without making it seem really random, Cuz were talking about... the weather (this is me rolling my eyes) ?

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by WashingtonGirlie13 on 11/5/2012 9:39:11 PM

 
 



First, I just wanna say how much I <3 that I get such a fast reponse to my probs! THANKS SO MUCH!
I have another problem...
My BFF is two years older than me, and her little brother is my age (three months younger). He's had a crush on me for FOREVER and last year he constantly told me about it. He used to just be creepy and I admit I was kind of flattered (even though I didn't like him back) but now he's just mean. He constantly tells my crush random things about me and it's really annoying. My crush doesn't care, but since my BFFs lil bro knows EVERYTHING about me (not my best friends fault, promise. I always catch him eavesdropping), i'm afraid that somethings gonna ruin the the relationship thats finally forming between me and my crush. Like I said, he doesnt care...but what it my BFFS lil bro says something about me thats a lie?
HELP pleasE!




Hey girl, no prob! I'd ask the BFF's bro if he could stop talking about you to other people or even give your BFF the heads up and ask her to talk to her bro. Sometimes just confronting someone about the behavior can be enough to get them to change it or be more conscious of the fact it's not OK.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by WashingtonGirlie13 on 11/5/2012 7:23:30 PM

 
 

Over the summer my crush asked for my number. We exchanged numbers, of course, and I was really excited. When my mom found out, she was really excited for me too. When my uncles found out, THEY were excited for me, TOO! One thing that really bothers me, though, is my mom is kind of TOO excited. It's already November and even though I got his number in August, my mom always raises an eyebrow when I get a text because she thinks its my crush. Whenever she knows I'm texting him, she constantly asks what he said and what im saying. My little sisters squeal and rush to my phone everytime he texts me. My uncles are totally cool about it-they give me advice, even-which I like because they arent OBSESSED with the fact that I have my crushes number. I know this is the first number ive had from a boy and I totally get that my mom wants to know whats going on, but how do I get her to stop freaking out? Its kind of embarrassing!




Hey girlie, I totally get it. While it can be emberrassing, try to remember that Mom is just excited for you and excited that she gets to be a part of the crush-world your in. The next time she gets a bit too excited, take her aside and explain your feelings calmly. Tell her its great that she is excited and interested in your life when it comes to boys, but her over-excitement is turning you off. If you adress the issue calmly and honestly and share these feelings with your mom, she's sure to understand and try harder next time. Good luck! and congrats on getting that cutie's number. 
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by WashingtonGirlie13 on 11/5/2012 4:28:49 PM

 
 

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Okay so i have a boyfriend.But he is really quiet and shy around me. How can i get him to be more confident around me and talk more instead of having me do all the talking? Also why are boys so shy?
P.S. he is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend

Hey girl,

Not all boys are shy (everyone has different personalities!), but if it's his first relationship that might be why--he might not be sure how to act in a relationship! Once you know each other more it will be easier to talk to him and for him to open up more, so try having casual conversations and ask him his opinions on things, like what his favorite TV shows or sports teams are. If he's talking about something he likes, he will feel more comfortable talking to you, which will lead to more two-sided conversations in the future.

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