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Why does he flirt with me if he says he doesn't like me?


 

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This guy has been flirting with me forever. Recently, my friend called him and asked if he liked me, and he said “no.” Now, I’m confused. If he doesn’t like me, why does he flirt?


Dear Why,

Maybe he does like you, but doesn’t want to discuss it with your friend. Think about it: If his friend called you and said, “Who do you like?” would you tell him or say, “No one”? Sometimes, go-betweens make relationships easier; other times, they ruin everything. Keep getting to know your crush, but don’t pressure him into stating his feelings. Maybe his actions will soon speak louder than words. Or maybe he’s just a big flirt.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/24/2012 12:00:00 AM

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i kinda like this guy but he is going out with my best friend but before he asked her out he showed signs of liking me but now that i realized that i kind of like him its awkward.what should i do?


 


Hey Girl! It stinks, but you really don't want ruin their relationship. Still be yourself, be friendly, hang out with them. Just try to "play it cool." I hope this helps!


Hannah H. 


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by xXWhoYouAreXx on 10/25/2012 4:56:39 PM

 
 

I'm into this guy and i really want him to ask me out. Any tips to let him know that i like him without coming on to strong?

Thanks

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by gracezoom144 on 10/24/2012 11:49:52 PM

 
 

I have a guy friend that flirts with me. Yeah he's just a player, but he's still my friend.

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by Gabriella123 on 10/24/2012 11:49:51 PM

 
 

Soooo this boy flirts with me everyday but he tells me he doesnt like me but he told other ppl that he really likes me! I dont get him at all!!! help!!

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by Luna8844 on 10/24/2012 10:34:49 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD i'm having a family problem. it's with my sister who's a freshman in college in a different state. when she was still living with us, she used to get in a lot of fights with my parents about lying &stuff and it would always end with screaming and crying late at night -it had a big impact on me. Of course they love each other lots, though, so it wasn't like they didn't. the thing is, i havent quite forgiven her. she ruined a few years of my life because of all that fighting and i'll never get that time back. now that she's gone, it's so peaceful around the house (i know that's mean, but it's true). my parents &other sister miss her a lot and are always talking to her, but I hardly do either of two. I know that's really bad, but I don't feel the need to and sometimes(really bad), I even forget about her. My mom &uncle are very distant and seem to hate each other. they won't talk even if they're forced to. I dont wanna end up like that, but i can't forgive my sister. plz help!

 

hey girl! I know you say you can't forgive your sister, but that's the only way you can move on. That part of your life is over. You're right, you'll never get it back, so why waste all your time obsessing over it? The past is the past, so let it go. Family is so important, and you shouldn't lose part of yours just because your house was a bit loud and hectic for a couple years.

xoxo 


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