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Why does he flirt with me if he says he doesn't like me?


 

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This guy has been flirting with me forever. Recently, my friend called him and asked if he liked me, and he said “no.” Now, I’m confused. If he doesn’t like me, why does he flirt?


Dear Why,

Maybe he does like you, but doesn’t want to discuss it with your friend. Think about it: If his friend called you and said, “Who do you like?” would you tell him or say, “No one”? Sometimes, go-betweens make relationships easier; other times, they ruin everything. Keep getting to know your crush, but don’t pressure him into stating his feelings. Maybe his actions will soon speak louder than words. Or maybe he’s just a big flirt.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/24/2012 12:00:00 AM

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So there's this guy I like (I'll call him g) and people have told me that he knows I like him. Now there's this girl (I'll call her k) Who is nice to everyone but me. When I give her compliments she says thanks, but not the nice way. g and k I think are dating and they are SUPER popular. What should I do? I'm too nervous to ask him to go out w/ me

 

 Hey girly, if G is dating someone, def don't ask him to go out with you. He would probably (and should!) say no if he is already seeing someone else. Wait until he is def single and then start flirting.

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by Raven0503 on 10/24/2012 7:26:00 AM

 
 

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I started getting my period in June of 2010, and it's been two years after that. Is it still normal to be irregular? And how long does it take to get on a regular cycle?
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~SecretID

 

Hey girly, this is totally normal, some women just get irregular cycles. You can talk to a doc about ways to make it more regular. In the mean time, just be ready!

Lauren I.

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by SecretID on 10/24/2012 7:21:10 AM

 
 

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Ok so my family goes to this restraunt every Saturday (it's like a sit down fast food place, no drive thru but its not close to fancy lol) there's this guy who works there whose cute and looks about my age. I've noticed that he's states at me and when ever my family walk in or out he's always like hi or bye have a wonderful day ( I know it's part of his job but I've noticed a slight difference when others walk in) anyways I want to talk to him, but one he's working and two he lives a a different town than I do so its not like I can see him around when he's not working. Should I try (if so tips please! I've never flirted or even talked to a guy, I'm pretty shy) or just forget it??? Thanks for your time!!!

 

 Hey girly, if you won't be able to see him outside of the restaurant, than it doesnt seem like flirting will get you too far. And it might be a little awkward if you start flirting with him in front of your parents. I would just enjoy the eye candy and save the flirting for someone who you'd be able to see outside of his job.

Lauren I.

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by Misbubbles on 10/24/2012 6:33:30 AM

 
 

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The guy that ive liked for a while and I just recently started dating like a couple weeks ago. One of our friends asked us earlier about making it facebook official so we were talking about it, and he said he doesnt care and that i can put it up there if I want to. So do you think i should change my relationship status on Facebook, and if so, when?

 

 Hey girly, if your dude is cool with making it 'official' go ahead and put it up. He already said he dosn't mind so it's all up to you.

Lauren I.

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