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Rule your school! 8 steps to self confidence

 

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Your teacher is calling on people at random, that cutie might actually be looking in your direction and you already got the last three problems wrong. Don’t freak!  We’ve got the trick to bust those nerves and kick classroom stress. With these no-fail tips, you’ll look and feel confident in any sitch. So take a deep breath and show your teachers, peers and crush that you’ve got what it takes to stay cool, calm and collected: confidence.

 

 

Dress for success

We tend to feel more confident when we know we’re looking our best, so skip the sweatpants and plan an outfit. Jeans, boots, a pretty top and a sweater or blazer ought to do the trick. Top it off with a ponytail or cute braid. You don’t need to go super fancy, but a little extra time and attention to detail will help you look more put together and feel great. 

 

Finish HW at home

The homeroom rush to get your math done and the race to wrap up English during lunch can leave you feeling frazzled. Use a homework planner to keep track of your assignments and make sure you finish everything ahead of time. Kick back and spend your free periods relaxing with your besties. No more last minute HW = no more pre-class stress.

 

Praise others

Let other students know how awesome they did in debate, what a good question they asked in math or how much you loved their science project. Praising others for a job well done will make you look secure and show confidence. Everyone will get a good feeling from this simple deed. And what goes around comes around; soon enough, you’ll be getting praise back for your next accomplishment.

 

Make eye contact

If you feel your eyes wondering, get them under control quick and appear instantly more confident. Practice this little trick during a convo with your friends, helping a peer, doing group work with a hottie or asking the teacher a question. No matter what the sitch, you’ll look confident in yourself and your work.

 

Smile and keep your head up

No matter what kind of day you’re having, smiling and keeping your head up is a one-second way to confidence. Everyone appreciates a smile and others are sure to notice your good attitude.  Keep smiling and soon enough, you’ll feel as confident as you look.

 

Go over your work

Check your answers and you’ll feel ready and confident when the teacher starts calling names to do the prob on the board. Go ahead and raise your hand to volunteer. You’ll impress your teacher and score participation points.  Plus, right answers mean better grades. 

 

Breathe

An oral presentation giving you the jitters? Try this! Slowly take a deep breath to the count of six or seven and exhale to the count of eight or nine.  While you exhale, relax your shoulders. You can do this breathing exercise in class for an instant relaxer and confidence boost.

 

Let it go

Get a wrong answer in history, miss a goal in PE or spill water in lab? Be confident enough to not let the mishap bother you. Just let it go. Dwelling on the mini blunder will only hold you back from having a potentially awesome day. We all mess up now and then so shake it off and do better next time.

BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 1/9/2013 12:00:00 AM

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I remarry need help. The end of the year dance is coming up and I want to ask my crush. I'm really nervous he might say no. Then as 8th graders, we have to walk down the "blue carpet" and answer a couple of questions. I already get nervous just reading in class out loud, much less answering questions in front of the WHOLE middle school. I'm sooo scared. Please help me through this!

 

Hey kct1999, well remember a no is just a word. If he does reject you, it won't be the end of the world. So keep that in mind as you work on being confident in approaching him. For walking down the blue carpet, you won't be the only one. Think of all your classmates who will be in front and behind you. Did you ever think they'd be nervous? Who are some of your favorite celebrities? Xoxo Smile 


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by kct1999 on 4/16/2013 8:31:56 PM

 
 

Ok, my reading teacher always call out people so we can say what we read. Every time she calls on me I get scared because my crush is in that class. So I tried to dress to success. Also I go over my work because I don't want to look dumb in front of him.

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by Lilmizzswager on 4/14/2013 10:23:33 PM

 
 

There are some students in my classes that talk a lot and during school. One of my teachers uses me as an example and points out how Im not talking and tells the other kids how well behaved I am and it can be really embarassing.

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by Kara02 on 3/27/2013 11:07:00 PM

 
 

I set a goal for myself this year to make a lot of new friends at school. Ive been talking to some new people but I havent made any real friends this year. Im also a little shy at school and I dont know how to just start talking to people. Ive tried asking questions and starting conversations in class but then I dont know how become real friends with someone. How can I do it?

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by Kara02 on 3/27/2013 11:02:05 PM

 
 

The dress for success thing really does work. When I'm wearing one of my favorite outfits, I find myself skipping around class and i feel like i can do anything.

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by goldforever on 3/18/2013 5:28:51 PM

 
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