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Rule your school! 8 steps to self confidence

 

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Your teacher is calling on people at random, that cutie might actually be looking in your direction and you already got the last three problems wrong. Don’t freak!  We’ve got the trick to bust those nerves and kick classroom stress. With these no-fail tips, you’ll look and feel confident in any sitch. So take a deep breath and show your teachers, peers and crush that you’ve got what it takes to stay cool, calm and collected: confidence.

 

 

Dress for success

We tend to feel more confident when we know we’re looking our best, so skip the sweatpants and plan an outfit. Jeans, boots, a pretty top and a sweater or blazer ought to do the trick. Top it off with a ponytail or cute braid. You don’t need to go super fancy, but a little extra time and attention to detail will help you look more put together and feel great. 

 

Finish HW at home

The homeroom rush to get your math done and the race to wrap up English during lunch can leave you feeling frazzled. Use a homework planner to keep track of your assignments and make sure you finish everything ahead of time. Kick back and spend your free periods relaxing with your besties. No more last minute HW = no more pre-class stress.

 

Praise others

Let other students know how awesome they did in debate, what a good question they asked in math or how much you loved their science project. Praising others for a job well done will make you look secure and show confidence. Everyone will get a good feeling from this simple deed. And what goes around comes around; soon enough, you’ll be getting praise back for your next accomplishment.

 

Make eye contact

If you feel your eyes wondering, get them under control quick and appear instantly more confident. Practice this little trick during a convo with your friends, helping a peer, doing group work with a hottie or asking the teacher a question. No matter what the sitch, you’ll look confident in yourself and your work.

 

Smile and keep your head up

No matter what kind of day you’re having, smiling and keeping your head up is a one-second way to confidence. Everyone appreciates a smile and others are sure to notice your good attitude.  Keep smiling and soon enough, you’ll feel as confident as you look.

 

Go over your work

Check your answers and you’ll feel ready and confident when the teacher starts calling names to do the prob on the board. Go ahead and raise your hand to volunteer. You’ll impress your teacher and score participation points.  Plus, right answers mean better grades. 

 

Breathe

An oral presentation giving you the jitters? Try this! Slowly take a deep breath to the count of six or seven and exhale to the count of eight or nine.  While you exhale, relax your shoulders. You can do this breathing exercise in class for an instant relaxer and confidence boost.

 

Let it go

Get a wrong answer in history, miss a goal in PE or spill water in lab? Be confident enough to not let the mishap bother you. Just let it go. Dwelling on the mini blunder will only hold you back from having a potentially awesome day. We all mess up now and then so shake it off and do better next time.

BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 1/9/2013 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN have the best school year ever, get your act together guide, leadership 101, girl power

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so there's this guy in my choir class who sits right next to me every day (literally 6 inches away). i flirt with him all the time and ask him stuff. he flirts back and retaliates questions. he winks at me and smiles when i smile at him and gets kinda physical with me like "shoving me" (brushing up against my shoulder) and putting his hand in my face (so i have to entwine my hand in his and hold it down).we had a thing when i was a sevie and he was a freshman but it was just a bet (he lost) i found out. now imma freshman and he's a junior. he's sweet and he's uber good at bball which i used to play so we talk about that. he doesnt date during bball season cuz it distracts him. any advice how to get closer to him? (mayb bf)?

 

Hey girlie, just keep doing what you're doing. Get his phone number so you can text him and maybe see him outside of school. Good luck!


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by alindgren on 1/9/2013 6:07:02 PM

 
 



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I'm 13 and I'm 5'7 and 98lbs and I have a 24 inch waist, but 32' hips and they make me feel fat. :/ I'm not trying to seek attention just wondering if that's normal

 

Hey girlie, some girls have larger hips. It's nothing to be embarrassed about or self-conscious about. Be confident in your body and find clothes that flatter it.


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by xoxojillianxo on 1/9/2013 5:36:35 PM

 
 



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I've went to all my classes on my new schedule. And I absolutely hate every single one of my new classes. The teachers are young and don't seem to know how to teach well. And in my typing class I'm going to fail because all the keyboard covers are too big for the keyboard. And in every new class I just feel lonely there are some acquaintances of mine that I talk to in some of my classes but I'm still lonely. My classes last semester I didn't feel that lonely and I didn't have friends in any of my classes either. And overall school has gone from fun to down right depressing. What can I do to make school fun again and less lonely? Please help?

 

Hey girlie, give it a chance. Your teachers might surprise you and you have the whole semester to make new friends in your classes. Be positive, smile and make it fun! 


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by HockeyLuver on 1/9/2013 5:24:47 PM

 
 



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I have a huge crush on this boy. It's sort of awkward because I'm way taller than him, we are both shy, and he has no experience with girls. I have no oppurtunities to talk to him, but if I did I would have nothing to say.And if I had something to say I would be too scared to say it. I'm sick of calling it a good day when he looks at me. What's important to know is I don't want to date him. I'm crazy about him and i think he's adorable, but I just want to get to know him and be friends. Any ideas?

 

Hey girlie, any chance you get say hi! Even if you're just walking past him take the time to say hello to him. It'll make sure that he notices you and he'll think you're friendly and hopefully give him some incentive to try to talk to you.  


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by Strawberries101 on 1/9/2013 5:04:54 PM

 
 



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Can you give me any advice on how to study better? And during science i sit with the populars and they talk all the time and i cant focus on work and when we do experiments, they make me do all the work. How do i tell them to be quiet and to help me and not tell their friends that im like bossy?

 

hey girl! you just need to be honest and tell them you're worried about your grade and that you want to do well. if you're honest and kind they won't think youre bossy! 


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