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So I kinda like two boys and they both like me. But now I like one more than the other and I flirt with him more, but I feel like I'm leading on the other one. I don’t know what to do, but I really have feelings for them both and everyone knows. Any help?
 

Hey girlie, you’re right; you don’t want to lead a guy on if you’re really into someone else. So if you’re interested in making one of them your BF, it’s time to stop flirting with the other. You can still be friendly to the dude you’re not so into, but cut the flirting ASAP and keep convos casual from now on. Hopefully he’ll get the hint and follow your lead.
 

But if choice number two asks you out or gets overly flirtatious (like holding your hand or sneaking love notes into your locker), be honest and let him know that you’re really interested in someone else. Telling him the truth is the best thing for both of you. You don’t want to go out with a guy that you’re not completely into and nobody wants to be their beau’s second-choice pick. So be kind but straightforward; he’ll get the point and go on to find someone else and you’ll be free to be with the sweetie you like the most.

BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 10/27/2012 12:00:00 AM

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MODMODMOD!!! so i like 2 guys. im not sure if either of them like me for certain although one of them probably does like me, an the other might a little. what should i do??? i have liked one longer than the other, but is that saying anything if i havent known the other for as long?




Hey girl! Tricky situation but it would probably be best to figure out how you feel first. Take some time and decide who would be your best match. Get to know each guy without leading them on. When you know for sure you can plan out how to let him know! Good luck! 

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Taeler L.

by lili-ana on 12/7/2012 9:55:04 PM

 
 

ok so i was pretty sure this guy liked me, but he was talking to my friend and he asked if i liked him. my friend said yes and he said he didnt like me in that way. i was really sad that day and i kinda still hurt from it. help?

by thattaylorgirl6 on 11/18/2012 9:14:32 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod
I like one of my guy friends... And I think he likes me tooSmile., but I'm not sure. In our group of friends he always is near me and talks to me. I'm extremely ticklish and he is always tickling me. When we were at a school football game he gave me his sweater to wear also when I forgot mine at home.
We don't have any classes together but we have classes that are somewhat close to each other he usually walks with me to my classes. He teases me a lot but also defends me when other people tease me.
I REALLY like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me too but I'm not sure...
His parents are really strict and I don't think they would let him go out with me(or anyone else). Is there any advice you could give me that would help my situation?

 

hey! I guess my advice would be to stay friends with him if his parents disapprove of him dating. They're bound to let up sometime and then you guys can get together if you want Smile good luck!  


Helen S.

by macandcheese112 on 11/10/2012 1:50:23 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!
So i really like this guy, and he likes me and we r 13.
and he comes to see me at lunch everyday.
we also hug a lot.
but today, he grabbed my butt while we were hugging.
i was fine with it.
but what do u think?
was it to inappropriate? Should I date him? Is he a pervert? Should I move on, and find someone better? Keep in mind that i really do like him, and i never liked anybody else this much before.
please help me, and thank you in advanced. <3

 

Hey LoveHappens, if you were okay with it, then no I don't think it was inappropriate. It sounds like you really like him, so I think you should make a move. Hope this helps! Xoxo


Lynae P.

by LoveHappens on 11/8/2012 10:34:08 PM

 
 



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OK, so there's this guy that I'm about 80% sure likes me. My friend has allied arts with him (the one class I don't have with him)and this other guy was trying to get him to tell him who his crush was. Apparently he kept changing the subject to me and saying that no one would ever guess who it was. And it was stuff that just about everyone in the school knows, like the fact that I swim. So my friend says that she said that it's me and he turned a really bright red but didn't confirm or deny her guess. So does he like me? Also, if he asks me out, what should I do because my dad is really strict about boys. My dad hasn't really given a specific age for dating, but I'm guessing I'd have a really hard time convincing him. I think this guy would be a really sweet boyfriend and we have a lot in common, so if he asks me out, would it be OK to explain why I can't say yes right away?

 

Hey girlie, I'd guess that he likes you! If he asks you out talk to your dad about it before you give him an answer. And it's definitely OK to explain why, if he really likes you he'll understand and wait for you. 


Lauren T.

by lol1029 on 11/4/2012 5:22:27 PM

 
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