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People don’t like that my BF is black and I’m not. I don’t care what they think, but we’ve been threatened. I’m afraid for our safety if we don’t break up.

 

Bill: It’s amazing we’re dealing with this issue in the 21st century. Of course, you shouldn’t break up if you care about each other. Tell the proper authorities about the threats and, hopefully, this sort of prejudice can be put into a time capsule.
 
Dave: Idiotic threats take on even greater significance when made because of race. That’s why special laws address what are known as “hate crimes.” Have an adult intervene before one occurs.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 10/29/2012 12:00:00 PM

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You know, it's great that your with someone who makes ya happy. All you do is smile and say, you know, we are very happy together, there's no reason to hate him. It's ONLY his skin tone. Then if he's by you walk away confidently. Smile

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by LivieLoo on 12/28/2012 2:19:05 PM

 
 

One of my best adult friends happens to be white and her fiance is black. I can't wait for the wedding!!!

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by appleduck101 on 11/23/2012 11:19:23 PM

 
 

I really admire the fact that you still love him even after threats and obviously teasing. I can't even express how amazing that is. Just because someone isnt the same color as the other person doesn't mean they shouldnt love eachother. Such a great example, thank you so much for this story.

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by WashingtonGirlie13 on 11/5/2012 7:05:15 PM

 
 



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So I have known this one guy for 5 years now, and throughout those 5 years he has always told me how he hates me, and finds me annoying, and he says other mean stuff to me. This year he is in 2 of my classes, and he is always talking to me! He never stops talking to me, and told me that he likes talking to me because I'm the only one that will listen to him. He doesn't deny or say that hes sorry for saying mean things to me, and sometimes still does..What is with this guy?

 

Hey! do you know if he has many friends or is socially awkward? sometimes people who have a tough time in social situations react by lashing out at other people because negative attention is still attention. He may also have a crush on you. 


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by proarchergal42 on 11/3/2012 4:38:29 PM

 
 

A lot of the prejudice that still goes on today is based on insecurities.Maybe this is too big to talk about on this site, but some people feel that dating people from another race means that you think that someone of the same race is not good enough for you.Maybe it's the hair or the stereotypical behavior the one race likes to place on the other,but they all play into this. As much as we would want to see prejudice go away America's obsession with race is so deep in our history that 50,60 years of reform and change won't get rid of centuries worth of racial divide.

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by realchk on 10/30/2012 12:22:25 PM

 
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