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People don’t like that my BF is black and I’m not. I don’t care what they think, but we’ve been threatened. I’m afraid for our safety if we don’t break up.

Bill: It’s amazing we’re dealing with this issue in the 21st century. Of course, you shouldn’t break up if you care about each other. Tell the proper authorities about the threats and, hopefully, this sort of prejudice can be put into a time capsule.

Dave: Idiotic threats take on even greater significance when made because of race. That’s why special laws address what are known as “hate crimes.” Have an adult intervene before one occurs.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 10/29/2012 12:00:00 PM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, advice, advice from Bill and Dave

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Two questions (if you only have time to answer one the second one is the most important, but it would be helpful if you answered both):
1. Okay so my crush broke up with his GF last week and he wasn't sad at all. He flirted with me a lot while he had a GF and flirts with me a lot now. Today in math we moved seats and now he sits with me! How do I get my flirt on with him in Math? (We sit across from each other)
2. There's this boy that I can tell is really trying to show me he likes me. I might CONSIDER dating him, if he wasn't so gross. He is REALLY inappropriate and I'm kind of scared of being alone with him, in fear that he would sexually harass me. How do I get him to not like me and stay away from me without being mean?
Please help me!!!!!!! Thanks <3

Hey girl, 1) why not see if you guys can pair up on a HW assignment or study for a quiz together? Be careful though: this guy is fresh out of a relationship. Give him some time for him to recover before you go marching in. 2) I'd say ignore his signals and just be polite around him. If he invites you somewhere, decline kindly. I'd stick to interacting with him when you're in a group (so not one-on-one) if you do feel threatened by him. Strength in numbers.

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Alyssa B.

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by turnonthemusic1 on 10/29/2012 3:41:18 PM

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Something like this happend to me... or well not really, but it will. Okay so I'm in 7th grade and a guy I like is a Freshmen in high school, he is goth... I am considered a "prep" to other people, so I would think it wouldn't work out between us because my friends would be really freaked out, not talk to me, and talk about me behind my back thinking there was someone wrong with me... I am thinking on waiting until i'm a freshmen to tell him I like him, and maybe he will like me back but idk.... please help what should I do! We are really good friends, but Im scared of what my friends woud do!

Hey girl, don't worry about your friends here. Think about what you want. This would ultimately be your relationship, not theirs. Don't sweat reputation: you don't have to give up being a prep for this guy, and you shouldn't have to. I say hint you like him and see what happens. There may just be sparks!

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Alyssa B.

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by Dragonfly214 on 10/29/2012 3:39:11 PM