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The Dirt: Why guys are shallow


 
Why do boys always judge girls by their looks? Why don't they just try to get to know us better?

His Answer: “We judge girls by their looks because it’s the first thing we see," admits Nick, 17. "If we like what we see, that’s when we make a move and get to know them better. I know we should probably get to know them better first, but it’s just natural to judge them by their looks before getting to know them. Don’t girls do the same thing?”

Decoded: Even though Nick's response was a tad harsh, it makes sense. Everyone judges one another by their looks--it’s their first impression. Boys and girls should get to know one another before they blow them off because of their appearance.

Your Move: Make the move first! Have him get to know you before he even gets a chance to think if you’re attractive or not. Keep note that personality outshine looks. Make sure to be yourself. If he doesn’t like that, then just move on to someone who isn't so shallow.

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I like this guy in my band class. Lets call him Joey. So joey is a grade above me so I can't talk to him at lunch, but I see him after school for a few minutes because he is close friends with one of my friends. In that short period of time that I see hime, what do I say to Joey to let him know I would like to be friends? (I cant date so being friends with him is the next best thing.

 

Hey katgirly, if you haven't already get your close friend to introduce you two. Hold a convo with him, maybe about the band. Every time you see him say hi and ask how he's doing. Once you've established a connection with him start flirting a little. Begin by complimenting and then joking with him. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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by katgirly on 11/4/2012 10:49:03 PM

 
 



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I have liked this guy for a while now but we never talked and we'd only stare at each other and i never knew how to talk to him. I decided to give up on him because he seems to like this girl. So now I am really starting to like this different guy and we are both in band so i see him ALL the time. The thing is, we don't talk. Ever. I never have talked to him before but he's friends with one of my friends and i don't want him to turn out like the old guy, where i just admire him from afar and nothing ever happens. How do i talk to him without it being awkward? I get really shy. I don't want to wait too long because marching season's almost over and then i won't be able to see him as much Frown I really want a boyfriend because i miss it so much and i really like him and he won't get out of my mind. . . please help me? Smile thanks

 

hey! the trick with talking to boys is not to put too much pressure on the end result of your conversation. Don't think about talking to him so that you can make him your boyfriend, think about it in the short term, like you just want to say hi and introduce yourself or you'd like to get to know him as a friend. More will happen naturally if you just don't over think it. I know that's easier said than done, but it's not something you can be taught by anyone but yourself. There's nothing weird about you joining in a conversation between him and your friend so don't think, just do it! I believe in you Smile 


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by fluffy kittyz on 11/3/2012 9:48:02 AM

 
 

Everyone pays attention to the looks, but my own crush isn't so hot. I like his personality and he isn't a bad kid so I still like him even if my friends call him ugly.

by Gabriella123 on 11/3/2012 7:34:30 AM

 
 

Guys are shallow because girls can be just as shallow and more. @ealaplante, your friend is either a tiny bit jealous or trying to help you. Okay. She told you to go back to liking your old crush? She cannot tell you who to like. But...she can tell you who to look out for and that is a great friend.

by transform2314 on 11/3/2012 1:52:20 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! I just recently started going to school (I was homeschooled) and on the first day I met this guy. he was really sweet and cute. he showed me around and helped me get used to school life. last week I told him I felt out of place and he put his arms around my waist and told me I was amazing and he would always be there for me. he hugs me all the time and holds my hand. one problem is that he's super popular and this pretty popular girl is always flirting with him. he doesn't flirt back and told me he thinks she's a brat. also ever since she saw us hugging she's been really mean to me. what should I do about her? do you think he likes me? I like him.

Hey girl,

It sounds like he likes you, or at least likes flirting with you! There's nothing wrong with hanging out with him and getting to know him, what the other girl thinks shouldn't affect your relationship. Try making some girl friends too so you will have other people to talk to and can ignore her. If you want her to stop being angry, though, you could also try getting to know her--she might just be jealous, and if you're nice to her she'll realize you're not a threat to her and will hopefully be nice back.

Meghan D.

by kaitlin177 on 11/2/2012 10:40:17 PM

 
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