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Why do boys always judge girls by their looks? Why don't they just try to get to know us better?

His Answer: “We judge girls by their looks because it’s the first thing we see," admits Nick, 17. "If we like what we see, that’s when we make a move and get to know them better. I know we should probably get to know them better first, but it’s just natural to judge them by their looks before getting to know them. Don’t girls do the same thing?”

Decoded: Even though Nick's response was a tad harsh, it makes sense. Everyone judges one another by their looks--it’s their first impression. Boys and girls should get to know one another before they blow them off because of their appearance.

Your Move: Make the move first! Have him get to know you before he even gets a chance to think if you’re attractive or not. Keep note that personality outshine looks. Make sure to be yourself. If he doesn’t like that, then just move on to someone who isn't so shallow.

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My friend recently got deported to Guatemala. I'm really sad she moved. I walked home with her everyday and we always had fun. She skyped me but that was before she got on the plane. She might not get on when she gets to her new home. How do I stop being sad?

Hey girl,

I'm sorry you're missing your friend. I'm sure it's really hard and sad for her to live in another country, too. Can you still email her? At least you'll be able to stay in touch, at least through writing. Instead of thinking about how sad you are that she's gone, try thinking about the fun you two had together and the good memories you will always have. You will still have more good memories with new friends at school, and she'll have new friends in her new country. Keep in touch with her, but don't be afraid to make new friends at school, too. It's normal to be sad and you don't have to "stop being sad," but don't let it stop you from being happy with other friends, too.

Meghan D.

by chick987 on 11/2/2012 8:24:45 PM

 
 

A guy i met at camp lives 5 hours away from my house. We txt and facebook message alot! And he is really sweet. Over the summer he told one of our other friends from camp that he 'like liked' me. I think i feel that way about him now. He somehow met one of my friends here and they started talking. When i told her about how i might like him and i hope he still liles me she wasnt supportive.she told me that i should go back to liking my old crush and just stay best friends with the guy that i like. I wanted to tell her that i have been friends with him for 10x as long as she has, she has only known him for a month. Does she like him? Is she trying to keep me away from him? She is my friend and shoupdnt she be supportive? She knows that he liked me at one point. Please help me modmodmod!

by ealaplante on 11/2/2012 8:06:27 PM

 
 

Totally true. Girls do judge on looks. EVERYBODY DOES NO MATTER WHAT PERSON YOU ARE! The guys that I liked that were attractive sometimes turned out as jerks. I totally wasn't interested then.

by YouCanCallMeCat on 11/2/2012 6:30:09 PM

 
 

girls kind of do the same. it is the first hting we see. i dont really pay much attention to looks as much as sense of humor

by N3rdyRand0mn3ss on 11/2/2012 5:42:29 PM

 
 

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So, my mom is throwing a fall festival at our house next weekend. I invited my crush, and he said he would come. But he has no clue that I like him. I met him at church camp, and I haven't seen him since then. We text all the time, but I haven't seen him in person. Should I make a move? Or just...not? I'm not sure what to do. Help?
Thanks in advance xoxo



Hey girlie,

See how he reacts to seeing you for the first time in a while at the festival, and if he seems happy and excited to be around you, then I would definitely make a move.  If he gets there and things are a little weird since you haven't seen each other in a while, then give it the day to get along and talk some more, then see how it is at the end of the night and make your decision! Jordan S.

by Graciegang on 11/2/2012 5:31:25 PM

 
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