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Help! I'm crushing on my BFF's boy--am I a bad bestie?


 
I think I like my BFF’s BF. He’s into everything I’m into. I can’t stop thinking about him. What’s wrong with me?
 

Dear Guilty Pleasure,

Nothing is wrong with you, and it’s not really even wrong to like your friend’s boyfriend. In fact, it’s fairly common since a bud’s BF is easy to get to know. But it would be wrong to act on your feelings. Don’t flirt, and don’t confess all. Instead, be patient and keep your eyes open. Think of a guy in your school you’d like to know better. Say “hi” to him tomorrow and, soon, you may be thinking about him instead of a boy who is taken.
 
 
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My BFF has like this boy for years, but I like him too. She obviously doesn't know this. I think he likes me, and we text, but I don't want to lose my friend. She means everything to me. There's also another boy that likes me, and it would break his heart if he figured out I like this boy. I don't know what to do. Please help

 

Hey girl,

At the end of the day, you've gotta make yourself happy. You have to weigh the possibilities. Would getting together with your crush be worth losing your best friend? Figure out what it is that you want and then go and get it. xoxo 


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by Imavegetariancat on 1/1/2013 3:38:20 AM

 
 

Hey. So I have this good friend and we both like the same guy. I have liked him for a while now. They recently started texting and it sounds like he likes her. They hang out a lot. I don't really talk to him all that much, and honestly I don't think he even remembers my name. My friend is really pretty and sweet and everyone likes her (and knows her). I am not as popular and havent had experience with relationships. So basically I don't stand a chance. I guess this all sounds pretty stupid, and I don't want it to bother me, but it does. She knows that I like him and that I am kind of upset about it. I really don't know what to do, or if I should do anything at all. Please help!

by Clina on 12/1/2012 6:04:42 PM

 
 



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Hi. I have this thing that I'm kinda worried about. So, I thought that this guy liked me -lets call him Niall-, then I started to like him. But I never woul've liked him until I started to know he liked me. And to me, that seems like one of those girls who think they'll never be able to get another guy ever, and that she's lucky enough to have a guy like her. Because I'm not like that at all! But I have NO IDEA what I'm doing! Especially now, because one of my best friends told me that she thinks that Niall likes her. But this was before I told her, and Knowing her, she definatley WILL tell him or one of his friends, or one of her friends that I hate. Why do I like him because of this, and how do i keep my best friend from telling anyone (because even if you make her promise, she will never keep a secrete that she thinks effects her life so much.)?

 

Hey soccacheer, if you beg her not to tell anyone, you will keep reminding her and she will definitely spill the beans. Never bring him up and even when she talks about him, don't say anything. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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by soccacheer on 11/25/2012 11:11:22 PM

 
 



i have a question its related to this story...my bff has a crush on this guy that i kind of like 2 and me and him hang out a lot and i have a lot of fun im not sure if he likes me but if he does what do i do??? im so confused ---Love Confusion

 

Hey TacoGirly, you guys should make an agreement for when it comes to liking the same boy. Agree that neither of you get him so no one gets hurt. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


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by TacoGirly on 11/25/2012 10:24:02 PM

 
 

hey guys! please join my club Seniors of 2016. the link is on my profile!! thanks! hope to see you there!(:

by ljbdaisy on 11/14/2012 5:48:04 PM

 
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