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Help! I'm crushing on my BFF's boy--am I a bad bestie?

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I think I like my BFF’s BF. He’s into everything I’m into. I can’t stop thinking about him. What’s wrong with me?

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Nothing is wrong with you, and it’s not really even wrong to like your friend’s boyfriend. In fact, it’s fairly common since a bud’s BF is easy to get to know. But it would be wrong to act on your feelings. Don’t flirt, and don’t confess all. Instead, be patient and keep your eyes open. Think of a guy in your school you’d like to know better. Say “hi” to him tomorrow and, soon, you may be thinking about him instead of a boy who is taken.

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 11/14/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Hi ok I've liked this guy for over two years and last year I told him that I liked him and he rejected me

I couldn't get over him so I just decided to ignore my feelings. But lately, I just keep liking him more and more and theres no way for me to control these feelings for him anymore. I think he likes me though, because he's really nice to me, smiles at me, stares at me and always encourages me to do stuff like trumpet solos in band. We hold each others gaze for like 30 seconds. I don't know, think he likes me. I want to try one more time, and ask him out. If he says yes, well, great, but if he says no, it would be really annoying, because, well, I should've understood that last year, right? Do you think he likes me? Should I ask him out? Or should I just try to ignore my feelings again? Thanks

hey girl! there's nothing wrong with asking out a guy, but maybe you should let it be his turn this time. or you could just make it casual by asking him to "hang out some time". it takes some pressure off of it and makes it easier to ask!

xoxo

Katie L.

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by hermionegirl12 on 11/14/2012 3:37:43 PM

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SO I HAVE A DANCE AT MY SCHOOL I JUST WANT TO WEAR JEANS THOUGH. IS THERE ANY WAY I COULD MAKE THEM LOOK CUTE AND SOMETHING WITH MY HAIR??? HOW ABOUT MAKEUP I WANT TO WEAR A LITTLE WITHOUT GOING OVER BOARD!

Hey girl! Well at dances people mostly wear dresses...but if you feel wearing jeans is more true to you, then I say go for it! You could try pairing them with a fun and dressy top, and don't forget a cute jacket. For your hair, you could use one of these:

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/10/22/The-pony-tales.aspx

and for makeup, try a nice smokey eye and lip gloss.

xoxo

Katie L.

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by the clique beauty on 11/14/2012 5:56:15 AM