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This kid says mean things to me because I broke up with him. I’m really tired of it and want him to stop, but how?


Dear Annoyed Ex,

Breakups can be messy, but it sounds like his feelings are hurt. You could shout, “Look, it’s over so leave me alone!” But it would be kinder and more effective to say, “I wish we could be friends again. Let’s start over—I will if you will.” Do it in person, on the phone or online.
 
 
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How to do you ask for your boyfriends phone number With out sounding weird about it?

 

hey girl! wait, your boyfriends number? If you're already BF/GF, it shouldn't be awkward at all. Just ask!

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by AarynJ on 11/7/2012 4:13:27 PM

 
 



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What does it mean if a guy sniffs your hair? A boy sniffed my hair in class and then at lunch the kid he was sitting next to, walked up to me and sniffed my hair?!? What does that mean?
Thanks! Smile xoxoxo

 

hey girl! boys sure are weird, aren't they? It sounds like they're just joking around with you, but maybe one of them likes you...?

xoxo 


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by LilacBallerina on 11/7/2012 3:30:12 PM

 
 



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I'm confused about my feelings for a guy and I was wondering if you could help. When I'm with him, we are just good pals and I feel completely relaxed and normal. The thing is, when I'm away from him I think about him...a lot and procrastinate at my locker until he comes so I can talk to him(his locker is next to mine). I've never been in this kind of situation with any other guy before so I truly have no idea what my mind is thinking or what I'm feeling. I don't know if I like him just as good friends or if I really do like him. Do you have advice or ideas for me? Thanks! Smile

 

Hey girl! When you think about him, do you get excited or anxious? And what do you think about? Things like "I want to talk to him right now" or "He would think this show was so funny!" Because the first sounds like you like him, while the second sounds more just like friends.

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by bratz911 on 11/7/2012 3:28:49 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD Ok so my good friend just started talking to my crush and now he is into her. She asked me about him and I just told her the truth- he is nice and funny but is kind of a player. So she told him that and now he is kinda mad at me. I keep telling him that I didnt say anything because I wasnt really being that serious. I texted him today telling him that he is not a player and I didnt want him to be mad at me. He just said it was ok and thats it. What do I do? how do I act around him? How can I get him to like me again (he told me that he liked me) and just what should i do? i feel bad and he didnt talk to me today as much as he usually does. thankssssss

 

hey girl! wow, that sounds pretty complicated. I think you may have been right about the player thing...he likes both you AND your bff? yikes. Sisters before Misters in my book... guys come and go (especially palyers), but gal pals are forever. I'd say see ya to this guy, you and your friend can do better!

xoxo 


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by zeus11 on 11/7/2012 1:49:50 PM

 
 

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Hey y'all,
I have a random question: Can your hair change?
Like become curly? Because all of a sudden I have certain strands of hair that try to curl.
Just curious...
Thanks!!

 

Hey girl, as we get older our bod can change in so many dif ways...our hair can even change from curly, wavey and straight. You prob won't go completely curly, but yeah, your hair may undergo a little style transformation. 

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