and I have been together on and off for two years. We’ve had a good
relationship so far, but it doesn’t seem the same as before. It’s like he
doesn’t care as much.
Dave: Relationships aren’t meant to remain the same. They
constantly evolve, which means after a while you might not feel exactly as you
did during those floating-on-clouds days. Not good, not bad, just different.
Can you deal with the way things feel? If not, go find another cloud to float
Bill: Let me go through my file of clichés.…Let’s see. “Out
of sight out of mind…” No.…Let’s try, “Familiarity breeds contempt.…” Too
harsh. Ah, here it is: “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Take a break from
each other now and then. Spend some weekend nights with the gals, or take yoga
classes with a new bud. Spend some time apart from your BF, and you should both
seem more interesting to each other.
BY BILL AND DAVE ON 11/12/2012 12:00:00 AM
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