SIGN UP
FORGOT MY PASSWORD
GUYS

When's the right time to spill your feelings?

MORE
  • GUYS MAIN
  • GET A BF
    • CRUSH MUCH?
    • ICE BREAKERS
  • DATING 101
    • DUDES DECODED
    • CUTE DATE IDEAS
    • SPLITSVILLE
  • ASK BILL & DAVE
  • DEAR CAROL
  • WHAT GUYS THINK
  • SWEETIE
  • MEANIE
ADVICE

How to get closer with a girl you kinda sorta know

MORE
  • ADVICE MAIN
  • IN THE NEWS
  • DEAR CAROL
  • FAMILY
  • FRIENDS
  • SCHOOL
  • TOUGH STUFF
  • ON THE JOB
    • GET STARTED
    • BABYSITTING
    • GOAL GETTER
    • DREAM JOB
  • DO GOOD
    • GET INSPIRED
    • TAKE ACTION
FUN STUFF

May's Summer Fun Giveway week 3 winners

MORE
  • FUN STUFF MAIN
  • STAR SIGNS
  • BLUSH MUCH?
  • SURVEY SAYS
  • CLUBS
  • ADVICE QUEENS
  • CRAFTS
  • RECIPES
  • CONTESTS
  • WINNERS
  • ROCK YOUR WEEKEND
  • YOU WROTE IT
ENTERTAINMENT

DNA Mix Up: Little Mix’s new album

MORE
  • ENTERTAINMENT MAIN
  • GOSSIP
  • STAR STYLE
  • GL EXCLUSIVES
  • EDITOR'S PICKS
  • BOOK CLUB
STYLE

Get perfect beach waves without setting foot on the sand

MORE
  • STYLE MAIN
  • FASHION
    • CUTE & CHEAP
    • STYLE 911
    • TRENDS WE HEART
  • BEAUTY
    • BEAUTY SPY
    • BEAUTY TRENDS
    • BEAUTY 911
    • HAIR STYLES
    • HAIR TIPS
    • SKINCARE
  • HOW TO
  • FAB UP YOUR LIFE
HEALTH & FITNESS

5 safest sunscreen picks of the season (and serious dos and don'ts)

MORE
  • HEALTH & FITNESS MAIN
  • WORKOUTS
  • RECIPES
  • EAT RIGHT
  • HEALTHY STUFF WE HEART
  • YOUR BOD
    • SKIN
    • HAIR
    • BOOBS
    • DOWN THERE
    • PERIODS, PERIOD
    • EVERYTHING ELSE
QUIZZES

Are you the ultimate Bellarina?

MORE
MAG

The secret to finding a li'l L-O-V-E this summer

MORE
  • MAG MAIN
  • INSIDE THIS ISSUE
  • COVER SHOOT
  • BEHIND THE SCENES
  • BE IN THE MAG
  • EDITOR'S BLOG
  • OUR BOOKS
  • ABOUT US
VIDEO

Bella Thorne rocks WAT-AAH!'s Move Your Body Flash Mob

MORE

Caroline M.

is modding

Lauren R.

is modding

Lynae P.

is modding

 
 
 

GL PROFILES

More Friends = More Fun

MY ACCOUNT

MY PROFILE

CREATE A PROFILE

 
 

GL
Tweets !

AN HOUR AGO Host the best last-minute Memorial Day cookout: Click Here!

1 HOURS AGO Wanna grab a gorge gloss today? Share a pic of your @Lip_Smacker kissy face with #LipSmackerLove to win: Click Here!

2 HOURS AGO How to deal when you feel like your bestie is branching out: Click Here!

 
 
 
Girl's Life Newsletters

sponsored links

GUYS | ASK BILL & DAVE

20 Comments | Add Yours

Refresh your relationship in a pinch

 
 

Check these out, too...

  • Is there a way to flirt without being obvious?
  • Puppy love? Puh-lease
  • Smooching secrets from real guys
  • When's the right time to spill your feelings?
My BF and I have been together on and off for two years. We’ve had a good relationship so far, but it doesn’t seem the same as before. It’s like he doesn’t care as much.

Dave: Relationships aren’t meant to remain the same. They constantly evolve, which means after a while you might not feel exactly as you did during those floating-on-clouds days. Not good, not bad, just different. Can you deal with the way things feel? If not, go find another cloud to float on.


Bill: Let me go through my file of clichés.…Let’s see. “Out of sight out of mind…” No.…Let’s try, “Familiarity breeds contempt.…” Too harsh. Ah, here it is: “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Take a break from each other now and then. Spend some weekend nights with the gals, or take yoga classes with a new bud. Spend some time apart from your BF, and you should both seem more interesting to each other.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 11/12/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, advice, advice from Bill and Dave

< PREVIOUS   NEXT >   

Previous12345NextShow All
20 Comments | Add Yours
SORT: OLDEST FIRST | NEWEST FIRST
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD
I've been feeling kinda lonley and unwanted at school, plus I got into a fight with my parents a few days ago. Since then I've been obsessed with going elsewhere. Not running away, more like moving in with my grandparents, attending a summer camp or going to a boarding school. I have my eyes on going to a fine arts school but I don't know if I'm ready for it.I'm only 15 and I haven't spent more than a week away from home without having any family members with me (I stay with my grandparents over the summer for 2-3 weeks). Do you think it's a lost cause or do you think I should try? If so, do you have any suggestions for schools or advice?




Hey girl, I'd let your emotions cool here and see if it isn't you just recovering from this fight that has left you feeling like that. Try to get more involved in activities at school and meeting new people. As for going away from home, trust me, you can get used to the distance, but there's an adjustment period at first. I wouldn't give up on things there or them getting better just yet!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

report

by emmyie11 on 11/12/2012 6:25:44 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD
If you're an advice queen, how do you answer questions? Will there be a little button? Will an email be sent?




Hey girl, people will post comments on your club page, and you'll post comments in response there.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

report

by julybaby01 on 11/12/2012 6:20:01 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! I've wanted a YouTube account for a really long time and my mom doesn't care if i have one, but it's my dad that's being stubborn. i've already asked a few times and i said i'd never say my name or show my face, but he still won't give. how can i convince him? ThanksSmile




Hey girl, ask him to articulate his reasons why he doesn't want you to have an account and hear him out. Then ask if there's a way you can compromise: maybe he can approve your profile before you submit it, for example, and help control your privacy settings. By being willing to negotiate and acting mature, you're opening the door to him reconsidering. 

xoxo
Alyssa B.

report

by myfatsquirrel on 11/12/2012 5:46:34 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD
Okay so, today I was at school with my group of friends (which includes guys and my crush) and the guys were going on about some fortune (from a cookie) and I heard my name a couple times and they kept asking if I wanted to know but they didn't tell me. So, I finally got the answer out of them the fortune was 'Soon a friend will give you a special gift.' He was talking about me kissing him. I didn't but I wanted to does this mean he wants to ask me out, but doesn't know how to? Should I ask him out?




Hey girl, it sounds like it may have been a hint he's more interested. So start cool and ask him to hang out one-on-one with you sometime. Ask if he wants to watch a movie or hang at your house. It's a good first step.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

report

by keyesalex on 11/12/2012 5:42:42 PM

 
 



mod mod mod
One of my best friends has a boyfriend and I am really happy for her..until Friday. I heard a girl ask him out...and he said yes! I know he hasn't broken up with my BFF. Let it go or let her know?




Hey girl, let her know. While there could be a lot of other things explaining this (and preface it by saying this is just what you saw, but you don't know the full context), she should have a heads up there may be something more going down.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

report

by rainyseattlegirl on 11/12/2012 5:25:26 PM

 
Previous12345NextShow All
You must be signed in to post a comment. SIGN IN or REGISTER

ADD A COMMENT


 

 

 

  • RENEW
  • SUBSCRIBE
  • GIVE A GIFT
  • DIGITAL EDITIONS
  • ACCOUNT STATUS
 
You would give anything to...



 
 
WIN
TODAY
GRAND
PRIZE
GIVEAWAY
CALENDAR
Starburst Strawberry Banana

Flavor: Delicious candy flavor in a yummy gloss.

Fab Fact: Treat yourself anytime with this 2004 Lip Smacker.

Are you and your guy meant to be? Select your sign first then his to find out if the stars see love in your future!
YOU
YOUR CRUSH

Read it for free! Get a sneak peek at Julie Kagawa's thrilling series...

 
The Blood of Eden series continues…and this time, Allie must save her creator—and the world—from a deadly virus that could end
human and vampire existence.
 
CLICK HERE to download a free excerpt of
The Eternity Cure by Julie Kagawa.
 
Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links

  • About Us
  • Advertise
  • Privacy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Home
  • Free Newsletters
  • Subscribe
  • Give a Gift
  • Renew

  • Model for GL
  • Pay Bill
  • Questions?
  • Contact Us
  • © 2013 Girls' Life Acquisition Co. All Rights Reserved.