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Never been kissed: Why am I the odd girl out?


 

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I'm 13 and never been kissed. I'm not even scared of it! But everyone (and I do mean EVERYONE) at my school has already. Why am I the odd girl out?
 
Trust me--your sitch does not make you odd at all, because it’s actually a very common one. Everyone’s different and gains their experiences with boys at different paces. So even if it seems like everyone else has secured a smooch, that isn’t at all the case, and that shouldn’t add pressure on you. Plus, credit goes out to you girl for not even being nervous! You should be proud of this and proud that you’re waiting for the right guy and time instead of spoiling that moment just because you wanna get it over with.
 
In all honesty hun, I felt the same way you did...and I didn’t even have my first kiss until I was 15! But the reality was that even though I felt like everyone else had been kissed, it just wasn’t true. There were a ton of girls in my grade stuck in my same situation but we were all too shy to talk about it. I’m sure that’s why it may seem like everyone else has had that experience, when really there are a bunch of girls your age who haven’t. So don’t let it get you down! Just be yourself, remain optimistic and set a goal to spark up a conversation with your crush the next time you see him to give that moment the kicks-start you want.

BY JENN SHELTON ON 11/17/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, crush crash course, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, pressure to get physical, sweet single life

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MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!! I like this kid in my class he was my bgf until he found out when he did the whole school did. Now he acts like he HATES ME all the girls in the school say hes too nice to hate anyone. It is first year at this school as well as me. HELP ME!

 

 

Hey Chica, He probably doesn't hate you. He's most likely just a little uncomfortable or feels awkward when you're around. Put him at ease by acting like yourself.

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by crushblush on 2/26/2013 1:11:01 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MODMOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like a kid in my class from the begining of the year it has seemed like he likes meto. From the time he found out to more than a month later he is still iceing me out. Im iceing him out to though. His friends always ask eachother should we tell her. When it is just me and his friend we are toatally awsome friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

 

Hey Girl, stop icing him out. If you are more open to him, then he will be too.

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by crushblush on 2/26/2013 1:05:45 AM

 
 

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I'm 13 too. Never been kissed or aske out. I really like this, guy, like the biggest crush I have ever had. It's probably since my hormones are up but I totally love him. He might like me, I don't know, but he's my friend's ex. SHe doesn't like him, but if I asked him out and he said yes, what would she say? She doesn't know I like him and if I were to tell her, she would laugh at me and say bad things about him. Only one friends knows that I like him but she's not being supportive. I don't mind, but should friends be supportive?
Thank you

Hey girlie,

I would talk to her before you do anything--do you want to lose your friendship with her for a chance at a guy you're not sure likes you? You don't know she would laugh at you if you don't tell her, and it would probably hurt her feelings a lot if you didn't tell her! Honesty is the best way to go, so I would try explaining to her why you like him and hopefully she will understand. 


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by PeculiarGurl on 2/22/2013 9:10:05 PM

 
 

In my opinion, you shouldn't worry yourself with a boyfriend until high school. I am on 8th grade, and nobody in my class even has a boyfriend except one girl in my class is dating a guy in my class and everybody seems to think it's kind of weird. I know I do!

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by animalsrock22 on 2/15/2013 5:47:49 PM

 
 

lol i've never been kissed too AND been on a date. i know how you feel Tong

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by islandgirl23 on 2/9/2013 10:54:02 PM

 
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