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Should I dump my BF for his bro?


 
I've been dating my boyfriend who's 15 for five months. He has an older brother that's 17. Last month, his older brother has been sending me love texts. What should I do? 'Cause I kinda like him, but I like my boyfriend more. I need help...

 

Sometimes brothers can have a lot in common, but having feelings for you should not be one of them. If you really like your BF, then you gotta think about how this would make him feel if he knew that you were receiving romantic texts from his older brother.

 

Receiving flattering texts is enough to make any girl swoon, but at what cost? The best advice I can give you is to tell your BF’s older brother to knock it off with the texts. At the end of the day it’ll only get both you and him in trouble. And if you aren’t quite feeling the relationship with your BF anymore? That’s fine, but stay away from his bro. It’s a messy situation that you just don’t wanna find yourself in.

 

The most important thing is to be honest with yourself and your BF. It’ll pay off in the long run if you nip the texts in the bud now.

BY ALEXIS GAVRELIS ON 11/25/2012 11:00:00 AM

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MOD MOD MOD ok so this guy that I recently started seeing is a grade older than me and was my Bgf before being my bf. He doesn't wanna go public with our relationship but I rly rly want to. I don't wanna tell him because I don't think he wants to let everyone know but I rly want to tell my besties. But if I tell them word would probably spread. I also feel inferior to him and like I'm being clingy because he's older. What should I do or say?

 

Hey! I think you should be able to tell your friends about your bf. make them promise not to tell, and if they do, that's not your fault, right? 


Helen S.

by annawebster100 on 2/7/2013 8:25:12 PM

 
 

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Theres this guy that I reall like and he likes me too... we are both freshman and i would totally date him but theres one problem.....he has a brother whos 2 years older and im kinda freaked out by him....idk why but he just kinda scares me!!!! He also kinda bullies his brother(who i like) and so i know he would pick on us... what should I do... he invited me to do something with him tomorrow but his brother will also be there!!!
Thanks!

by Reba22:22 on 2/1/2013 7:35:42 PM

 
 

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Theres this guy that I reall like and he likes me too... we are both freshman and i would totally date him but theres one problem.....he has a brother whos 2 years older and im kinda freaked out by him....idk why but he just kinda scares me!!!! He also kinda bullies his brother(who i like) and so i know he would pick on us... what should I do... he invited me to do something with him tomorrow but his brother will also be there!!!
Thanks!

Hey girlie,

Maybe his brother would be nice to you if you got to know him better! He might be defensive of his little brother dating, but if you take time to get to know him he might warm up to you. I'm sure his brother will stick up for you, too!

Meghan D.

by Reba22:22 on 2/1/2013 7:35:03 PM

 
 

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Theres this guy that I reall like and he likes me too... we are both freshman and i would totally date him but theres one problem.....he has a brother whos 2 years older and im kinda freaked out by him....idk why but he just kinda scares me!!!! He also kinda bullies his brother(who i like) and so i know he would pick on us... what should I do... he invited me to do something with him tomorrow but his brother will also be there!!!
Thanks!

by Reba22:22 on 2/1/2013 7:34:13 PM

 
 

You need to get them both alone and describe the situation then get them together to describe the situation...the boys will think you are very honest and whatever happens will be easier in the end, i promise!
-Bailey

by Bailey72 on 12/13/2012 7:24:06 PM

 
 



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one more thing... my bf is not extremely attractive, but his personality is ADORABLE! how do I react when I tell my friend who he is and they're all like: ohhh... okay. he doesn't really seem your type...
PLEASE HELP!




Hey girl, don't mind what your friends think. Know all that matters is what you do. Tell them that they just don't know how amazing he is, but they'll see when they meet him and see you two hang out. Looks aren't everything.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by echri12 on 11/26/2012 8:02:34 PM

 
 



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so today my BFG asked me out and I like him so I said yes. We see eachother probably two hours a day... and it's super awkward! tomorrow I'm gonna see him again so what things should I talk about and how can I make it less awkard? also, I wanna start holding hands with him and how should that happen cuz he's kinda shy so he might not try to hold my hand... HELP ME!




Hey girl, take his hand yourself and don't let it be awkward. The trap a lot of girls fall in is thinking their relationship with their boyfriend has to be different than the one they had with their friend. That's not true at all. You can just hold hands now and spend more time together without needing the same excuses! So just be the friend you were before and relax; he will too. Nothing much has changed, just the title. Take the pressure off.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by echri12 on 11/26/2012 7:53:44 PM

 
 

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by Chloe<3 on 11/26/2012 6:19:14 PM

 
 

That's a sticky sitch :I

by YouCanCallMeCat on 11/26/2012 9:12:38 AM

 
 



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1) I literally have no idea how to flirt. I get that you compliment the guy and use eye contact or whatever, but I just don't get how you do it! When I like a guy all I do is look at him alot.
2) My hair is short and really thick, and I don't know how to style it. It just barely reaches my shoulders, and everybody else at my school (seriously, EVERYBODY) has hair longer than mine, even some of the boys! I've been trying to grow it out for AGES and its only grown about 1 and a half inches! Please give me some ideas for more styles I can do, and how can I make it grow longer?

 

Hey emroxlol, look at him and when he stares back smile and wave. If you are feeling comfortable and confident enough approach him and say hi and start a convo. Sear our site for more flirting tips, we have a lot girly that will definitely help ya. You can wear it up in a messy updo, put it in a bun, braid the front of your hair(google search lauren conrad braid for ideas) or just wear hair clips and headbands to get a new look. Hope this helps! Xoxo


Lynae P.

by emroxlol on 11/25/2012 10:30:58 PM

 
 

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by messy-luv's-you on 11/25/2012 9:40:59 PM

 
 



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I'm dating my ex back form December to March of this year. We broke up before because all we did was fight and he told my best friend everything before me. We started dating again a day before Thanksgiving and now he's doing it again. He's telling my best friend everything. And I really don't have feelings for him again but it was my best friend that set us up again and I couldn't ruin he chance? So can you please help me? Thanks. (:

 

Hey Avery. (:, I think you should end it again girly. You aren't happy and there isn't any chemistry. You don't want to have him thinking the relationship is one type of way when it isn't. Hope this helps! Xoxo


Lynae P.

by Avery. (: on 11/25/2012 9:19:11 PM

 
 



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this guy and i met at work (we're 16 and 17) and we both work together in the same part of the store. From the first time we met we just hit it off, and when his gf dumped him i made him feel better. The past few weeks my work friends have been telling me he likes me. friday I saw him and his friend shopping (while i was working) and he came and talked to me. So yesterday while we were both working he said his friend told him he should date me and wed make a cute couple. He said he wants to, but one problem. The store wont allow people to date when they work in the same part of the store. I asked to get moved to a different part months ago for a different reason, and it didnt happen. What should I do?? What should we do??

 

Hey girlie, if you want to see each other you could date outside of work and not let people know at work. Or you could wait until one of you gets moved to another department or leaves the store for some reason. 


Lauren T.

by Cherries51 on 11/25/2012 7:06:55 PM

 
 



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What is the average, normal weight for a 13 year old who's 5-1? Please give me an answer thanks!

 

Hey girlie, an average weight depends on more than your height and your age. It's also based on genetics and your body type. But a good range would probably be 90-125 pounds. 


Lauren T.

by xXMissBehavedXx on 11/25/2012 6:11:01 PM

 
 



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i have had so many MOD go up and they never get answered!! Explanation?? ANd also advice on how to ask a guy out??

 

Hey girlie, depending on what you're asking about and how appropriate it is for the site, MODs will choose not to answer certain things. As far as asking a guy out, be brave and confident! Guys like girls who are confident in themselves and know what they want. So show him that! 


Lauren T.

by yorkielover88 on 11/25/2012 6:05:20 PM

 
 



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I really like this guy but were both really shy!! How should I go about this?

 

Hey Emily241997, since you both are shy someone is going to have to make the first move. You should do it girl. Start by just saying hi and waving when you see him. Then start striking mini convos and then you can compliment him occassionally and joke a little. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


Lynae P.

by Emily241997 on 11/25/2012 12:54:18 PM

 
 

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what is the weight qualified as obese for 11 year olds?

by raeshrimp on 11/25/2012 12:51:11 PM

 
 

Oooooh tricky sitch! Stay away from his brother! I REPEAT, STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!
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by puddinface7 on 11/25/2012 12:43:24 PM

 
 



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help!! i have read all of your articles on boys but i still need help on how to flirt, becaus i fell for the cutest,athletic and sweet boy ever. do u also know how to tell if a boy likes me? Also, if i ask him out, he says yes., then what would happen when we break up? cuz i dont want to lose him as a friend. sorry for wiriting a lot Frown
love ya, Raeshrimp

 

Hey raeshrimp, since he's athletic strike up a convo with him about sports. Ask which his fave is and who are the best athletes. You can also compliment him here and there, and if you have class with him try to sit near him every so often. Different boys show their affection in different ways. Some will always be in your face, others will avoid you like the plague. Just try to look for any changes in their behavior towards you and that will let you know if they're into you. Once you guys start dating make a promise to each other to always remain friends no matter what. That way you two will have your friendship to fall back on. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


Lynae P.

by raeshrimp on 11/25/2012 12:28:01 PM

 
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