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So yesterday i went to the guy i likes basketball game and afterword i started to talk to his mom and she is realy nice and she said hi to me so i started talking to her and asked a person about how they would feel if it was there mom and some said its over obsicize are they right?

 

Hey moondust23, I'm not really understanding your question. Could you send it again? Thanks girl. Xoxo


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by moondust23 on 11/29/2012 11:18:41 PM

 
 



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i think i might like this guy, but i dont know if he likes me back. I have one class with him, and he's always joking around saying he's going to fight me (in a joking way) and teases me. The thing is is he's a freshmen an i'm a sophomore, and he is a friend of my freshmen brother! He told my brother that he dates his friend's sisters a lot, and told my brother he likes me, but i don't know if that was just to get my brother all defensive about me? We're good friends, and when i see him in the hallway he waves and smiles, and sometimes he goofs around and mouths "Call me" or makes a heart with his hand, idk if he likes me or not. HELP

 

Hey stormysea, I don't know girl. He seems really playful and goofy so I'm not really sure. Keep paying attention to him and see what happens. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


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by stormysea on 11/29/2012 9:52:35 PM

 
 



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So there's this boy at school that I kinda like because he makes me feel good around him and he makes me laugh. The thing is, he's a player. He might ask me out because he like me too. Should I say yes and give him a chance or tell him to change??? Please help.

 

Hey caylaforever, give him a chance girl. Who knows what could happen? And if nothing happens, you two could always be friends. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


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by caylaforever on 11/29/2012 9:51:36 PM

 
 



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So, I'm a huge guy-girl. I'm a girl, but I act so much like a guy. I play video games, hide my emotions, watch bloody and gory and scary movies, wear relaxed clothes, etc. The only major girlyish things about me are that i like guys and I LOOOOVE hair and makeup. Everyone sees me like this. Including my friends who are girls. Every time that I show my "girly-girl" side, people look at me like I'm a completely different person. I really want to be able to show my girly side because I NEVER get to, while all the other girls can and no one says anything bad about it. I can't even like a romance movie without everyone I know looking at me like I've been abducted by an alien. How can I show my girly side without having everyone (including my mom and dad) look at me like I've been replaced?

 

Hey claudsoda, you can't worry about what people think. You just have to be yourself and if people look at you weird, there's nothing you can do about it. Be you. If you like video games and makeup, like that stuff. Just think about how cool that makes you. There's two really cool sides to you. You have a lot of different interests that will allow you to interact with many people. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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by claudsoda on 11/29/2012 9:43:44 PM

 
 



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I'm in math and history with this really cute guy that I'm not really friends with. I really like him and I think he might like me back! Here are the things he did: he was the only person who remembered my birthday and wished me happy birthday at school (I didn't even tell him!) he always butts into conversations I'm having with mutual friends, moved to a seat next to mine (and also his friend so im not sure) and when I was standing in the middle of a class with a desk I couldn't move, he was the only one that helped me. Sometimes I think he's looking at me but I'm not sure. Do you think he might like me?
I'm confused though because once he got his candy stuck in the vending machine and he joked 'im the only one this would happen to,' then told me he'd be right back. And then he went off to a table with his friend and never came back! Does this mean he's trying to avoid me?
What are some good things to say to him without being obvious? Or body language signs?
Thanks!!!

 

Hey <3<3<3, yeah sounds like he's attracted to you. You know how you get with friends, you're always with them. So I think he just wanted to hang around his friends, so no worries. I would just say hi to him the next time you see him and ask what's up. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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