We’re
still a little heartbroken over the split of celeb couple
Selena Gomez and
Justin
Bieber. But then again,
rumors
are swirling that the two are back
together. Hard to keep track, right?
Either
way, there’s a lot to be learned by the actions of the duo during the height of
their relationship’s demise (whether it was a final one or not!). Here are some
techniques we spotted Sel using that could totally work for any heartbreak you
might be trying to get over.
Keep It Classy
While
Selena has been spotted attending events solo this month, like the recent
UNICEF Snowflake Ball, her ex has been seen putting on a bitter front for a
bit. After a Nov. 9 announcement
of their breakup, the Biebs
did an impromptu cover of Justin Timberlake’s “Cry Me a River” at his concert
the next night. Considering that the song is about JT’s cheating ex GF, we have
to call this move totally rude.
Watch the footage below…
The Lesson: While it’s
healthy and normal to rag on your ex in private right after a split, hold back
from publicly bashing the dude, both online and in real life.
Cut Him Off
The
pair reportedly reunited a week after breakup reports, but it seems all wasn’t
well just two days later. Justin was spotted outside of Selena’s house…and
completely unable to get in! According to TMZ, our
girl locked her ex BF out after she busted out off a dinner date just 10
minutes after arriving.
The Lesson: After a
breakup, you need time to process the end of the relationship and be on your
own. While you may not have to lock the gates to your house, delete him off
your FB feed and resist the urge to text him.
Call on Your Girls
One
day after kicking the Biebs to the curb (quite literally), People.com
reports Sel was having a full-on girls
night with another fellow famous female, Taylor Swift.
The Lesson: Right after a
breakup, make sure to enjoy some GNO’s (girls night outs!)…especially if your
BFF is killer at penning revenge lyrics! Have fun getting over your ex in any
way you like, but maybe don’t perform that song at the school talent show.
Look Ah-mazing
While
it’s always important to look and feel your best, there’s no time like right
after a breakup to flaunt yourself loud and proud. Selena knows what’s up.
Justin on the other hand? Well, he did show up to an accept award from the
Canadian Prime Minister in
overalls.
The Lesson: Keeping your
chin up and continuing to look fab will make you feel like a million bucks.
Falling into a rut and dressing like you’ve given up on life? Whelp, that will
just draw the wrong kind of attention.
Stay Strong,
Move Along
One
of the toughest parts about breaking up is staying broken up. Hello, it’s what
Jelena is currently struggling with!
The Lesson: In most
cases, the relationship ended for a reason, so it needs to stay ended. There’s
plenty of fish in the sea, and you just have to keep reminding yourself of
that. At one point, you will probably have to talk to your ex again. Just stay
strong and calm.
Do
you think Jelena are better off split or together forever? What’s your #1
breakup tip? Blog about it, babes.
BY KATIE LEMON ON 11/30/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN celeb gossip, entertainment, Justin Bieber, Celebs, Selena Gomez, celebrity gossip, guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A, sweet single life, playing it cool