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Popular BF? Fend the flirtarazzi off your guy

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I love my BF, but apparently so do a lot of other girls. They are constantly hanging around him, saying how hot he is, and one time a girl gave HIM a valentine! He tries to make them back off, but they won't listen. How do I show them that I'm staking my territory?

Besides kindly asking girls to "please stop" in situations where you are present and uncomfortable with their inappropriate, flirtatious behavior, there's not a whole lot you can do. But don't worry! You and your lovable BF, as a team, can work to stop the outward affections of other girls.

Have a heart-to-heart with your BF and tell him that you care about him and it really bugs you when other girls flaunt their feelings for him. The next time he encounters a not-so-secret admirer, ask him to simply tell her, "I have a girlfriend" and walk away. You shouldn't have to "stake your territory" if your guy steps up and helps make a fence around the territory. He's capable of fending off other ladies. Help him find civil, effective statements and actions to stop the love-fest.

Luckily, in the end, what all those other girls do doesn't even matter. If you like your BF, your BF likes you, and you both trust each other, then those other girls are just a nuisance and pose no real threat to your relationship. Make sure to get a little one-on-one time (outside of school) with your guy where you can avoid unwanted attention. At the park or the mall or a movie, you can enjoy each other's company, without the flirtarazzi.

BY KARIN ELWOOD ON 12/2/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN dealing with jealousy, guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, boyfriend Q & A, weird guy stuff

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girls like not available guys and won't take the availble ones

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by sym10 on 3/10/2013 6:05:05 PM

You should just tell those girls that they can talk
To your boyfriend but that's it tell them that it gets on
Your nerves when there hugging him and stuff that's reallly annoying
I mean he's YOUR boyfriend just tell them to back off
If I had a bf that would bother me soooo much some girls
Are really annoying

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by redvelvetluv on 12/21/2012 11:26:46 AM

If my bf if I had one had girls stareing at him from a far
I really wouldn't care but if they were like touching him
And hugging him I would be like can you please back away from
My boyfriend thanks!

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by Redvelvetluv on 12/20/2012 9:58:34 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
I've talked to my boyfriend about these girls all over him. He only said ''If you trusted me, you wouldn't confront me. They're my friends!'' He makes ME the bad guy? How do I get this girl (s) away from my man? I trust and love him. It's been 6 1/2 loving months and I don't want it to end due to some flirtzy ewws.

Hey Chica, you say you trust him. So do just that. Believe him and relax a little. You told him and now he is aware of it, so you can't do much more without going all crazy on him.

Hannah H.

Hannah H.

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by ScarKitty on 12/18/2012 11:25:37 AM