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My BFF doesn’t know her crush and I are dating. I feel really bad because the last time we crushed on the same guy, she let me go out with him! Am I a bad person?
 
Dave: Uh, you’re developing a pattern. If nothing else, you get high marks for consistency. Are you sure you truly like these guys, or do you just go for ’em because your friend does (or vice versa)? Do some self-evaluation because you’re on a path that could only lead to trouble. There’s a contingency to the BFF thing regarding repeatedly dating your friend’s crush—it voids the whole deal. Have you heard of the TEE (Total Enemies Eternally) program? You will.
 

Bill: Did you date him after she started crushing on him? Seems like it, or you wouldn’t be writing! That’s probably a penalty in the field of crushing. Yellow flag, 15 yards. A friendship can’t end on a penalty, though, so you’d better come clean to your BFF.

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So my crush likes my bestie, and when she found out he liked her now she is liking him. Me and my crush Are really good friends, my bestie know that i like him, what should i do, because he is going to ask her out. Thanks Xoxo Smile

Hey girl,

I'm sorry to hear your crush likes your friend. I know it's hard, but try to be happy for her and support her since you two are so close! There are plenty of other great guys out there who would love to date you, and you'll meet them when it's right.

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by doglover463 on 12/3/2012 6:45:02 PM

 
 

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by dojhallow97 on 12/3/2012 5:33:18 PM

 
 

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How do i tell my friend that i have a crush on her uncle that is 13. And he's a good friend. Of mine.

Hey girl,

I would just be straightforward with her and tell her the truth! It might be awkward, but it will be better if you tell her sooner. She'll probably understand since you two are so close!

Meghan D.

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by hgrules on 12/3/2012 4:14:39 PM

 
 

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Over the last few weeks, I've been having this thing with this guy. We were both in the school play together, and after the play was done we still hanged out and he asked me for my number. 2 weeks ago I was at a hockey game and we were texting before hand. He asked me what's up and I said I was at a hockey game. He said he was going to go, but his friend ditched him and he didnt really want to anymore. Anyway, later at the game he came up to me and I said what are you doing here and he said well I came to see you. The next day, the whole cast went to see another show (he even drove me, because he offered me a ride) and he made sure to sit by me. Halfway through he slowly reached down and held my hand for the rest of the night. The next week he and I and two others went to see the new James Bond movie, and he held my hand then too. I really think he likes me except one problem, he's not texting me as much as he used to. I don't know what this means! Help please! Thanks

Hey girl,

If he's not responding to your texts as much, maybe wait for him to text you first sometimes. And maybe he is uncomfortable with texting since you are getting closer, so try having more conversations in person in addition to texting. And it's okay to ask if you're dating so that you will be on the same page!

Meghan D.

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by BeachCoffee on 12/3/2012 4:06:09 PM

 
 

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so i got the part mary in the christmas play but the guy playing Joseph HATES me because he thinks that i like him but I DONT!!!!!!! so i heard him say that he wanted to be sick for the performance so that he doesnt have to be there. what should i do...? plus i really wanna be friends with him.....

Hey girl,

I would try to be the bigger person--just go up to him and say that you want to dissolve whatever bad blood has been between the two of you in the past and start over by being friends. Just be nice to him no matter how he acts, and the play will run smoothly!

Meghan D.

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by Carrie_Underwood on 12/3/2012 4:00:47 PM

 
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