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This guy thinks he’s in love with me, but I hate him. What should I do?

 

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Don’t be mean to the poor guy. So he has good taste. Hate is a brain drain. Can’t you just ignore him? He probably already realizes his chances with you are slim, so he’ll move on soon enough.
 
 
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So there is this guy I like but he is dating my BFF. They are a really cute couple though. What should I do!!!!!!!!!!????????

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by cocomc9910 on 2/28/2013 7:46:43 PM

 
 

So there is this guy that likes/liked me. But I don't like him. In the beginning of the school year he asked me out but I said no. I want to be friends but now it is akward between us. He has a girlfriend but he still flirts with me and he kisses her right in front of me. And now his gf is giving me the evil eye. What should I do?????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by cocomc9910 on 2/28/2013 7:42:28 PM

 
 



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im 15 and Whenever I go out to the store or the mall when guys stare at me
I get soooo nervous and uncomfortable idk why though
I feel like there looking at me like him a piece of stake
Any advice thanks Smile

 

Hey! I think this is an issue many women deal with. Since it's hard to change the reality of it, everyone copes in their own way, so you just need to find what works best for you, whether that means ignoring them, staring back or asking them to cut it out. Of course if you ever feel threatened in any way, seek a public place immediately and find a security guard or police officer. That is always the right thing to do.


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by redvelvetluv on 12/22/2012 3:31:44 PM

 
 

Okay, so this saturday i went to a birthday party for a one year old(the daughter of a family friend/babysitting charge) and there was this guy there. I am not going to reveal his name so lets call him guy #1, and he is 14, one year older than me. We talked for a little bit and i couldn't help realize that i was thinking stuff like "OMG, he is so good with the baby" or "wow he is really sweet to people". He was pretty easy to talk to also. There is only two little problems, sorta. 1.)I sorta like another guy, who goes to my school and he is really cute and sweet and funny. 2.)My mother does not let me date, so i can't even date either of them. I also don't have the first guy's number, but i can get it from my sister's friend. But i don't want my sister to know about it, either. So i have three problems, How do i get his # without my sister finding out, what do i do about my mom, and which guy do i choose???? Please help! =/

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by Tristen148 on 12/16/2012 5:56:48 PM

 
 

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There is this boy I like, but he has a girlfreind. They've been dating for a while, but I didn't know this when I meet him. What should I do to get over him......... at least for now.

Hey girl,

You're right to know that you can't go for him if he has a girlfriend. Check out this post for ideas on getting over him--try focusing your energy into your family and friends and doing well in school, and keep your mind open to the possibility of dating someone who's available! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx

Meghan D.

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by a_school_nerd on 12/14/2012 11:48:09 PM

 
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