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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/12/2012 10:00:00 AM

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Hey girl,

I think it's fine to consider him your date since you're going together, although he might think you're going as friends if you asked him in a casual way. But even if you are going as friends, you can still ask him to dance with you and have a great time!

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by red_orange_yellow_green_blue on 12/14/2012 11:27:08 PM

 
 

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by Chloe<3 on 12/12/2012 11:52:22 PM

 
 



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I have a really silly, loud personality. I'm almost never quiet and serious. A lot of boys go for the serious girls, so I have a really hard time finding guys that will like me for me. I want to change, I think being really silly makes me look stupid, but I just can't change. Do you think that I'll ever find a guy who will like a silly, weird girl like me? I have always thought that someday, I'll find someone who likes my personality, but I'm starting to lose hope.

 

Hey girlie, I'm sure lots of guys like girls like you! Don't change for them. Your personality probably intimidates boys your age, but as you get older, I bet you'll get more attention because of it. 


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by hermionegirl12 on 12/12/2012 8:36:11 PM

 
 

So there is this guy that came to our school in the 5 grade. I used to like him back then. And I would sometimes say yes to when he asked me to dance with him at the dance but this year at the dance (im in 7 grade) he asked me and I said no-thankyou. I also said that he was a great freind but I don't think he heard Frown I feel bad. I don't know if I'm parinoid but it's awkward when we hang out now because we've been really close throughout the past years. !!!!!! help!

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by happygirl5457 on 12/12/2012 8:21:52 PM

 
 



MoDmOdMoDmOd!!!!!!
Ok there's this guy I REALLY like. I am planning on asking him out, but I'm super scared to, and I don't know how I should get him alone and ask him. Help? Thanks so much!

 

Hey girlie, just be confident! Ask him if you can talk to about something alone and go for it! 


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