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I am 14 and a virgin but, ever since I was 11, I’ve been doing everything except that. It’s with my brother’s friends, who are about two or three years older than I am. Is it wrong? I know none of the guys likes me.


Dear Boy Crazy,

When it comes to sex, 14 is way, way too young—and 11 is alarmingly so. Say no to these guys, and yes to your self-respect. They are abusing you. I’m sorry your brother lets his friends take advantage of you. That is terrible! Please stay a virgin, and confide in a trusted adult who can help you start the new year in a much more positive way.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/19/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Way to go GL!! Teen girls shouldn't be having sex!! That's something special you should save for your husband! Smile

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by RainbowPuke99 on 12/20/2012 1:05:38 PM

 
 

Maybe I am old fashion but I am in total agreement with GL. I don't think it was over the top or over dramatic. GL tells it like it is!

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by Chloe<3 on 12/20/2012 9:54:26 AM

 
 

If you're all underage and it's consensual then it's not abuse lol. Don't go any further until you feel you're ready but tbh the response was a little overdramatic. It's called hooking up and it's something a lot of teenagers do.

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by fireworks1071 on 12/19/2012 5:22:19 PM

 
 



Oh thts soo sad.
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I think I am getting sick. My younger sis has been throwing up, and I am dizzy and have a headache and somewhat of a stomach ache. My mom says I'm pale but I don't have a fever. I would hate to be sick OVER christmas break! Frown Am I sick?

 

hey girl! well I'm not a doc and I can't see you, but it sounds like you might be coming down with something. Make sure to wash your hands often, keep some distance from your sister and anyone else you know who is sick. Also, drink plenty of tea and fluids, and see if you can take a health supplement like Airborne or Ester-C, which are packed with Vitamin C to help boost your immune system.

xoxo 


Katie L.

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