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Its me again! That's what I figured... We have a lot in common and I think he might like me. How do I find out for sure with out it ruining our friendship or making it awkward if he doesn't?

You could see how he acts around you--check out this post for signs he likes you! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/11/08/How-to-tell-if-he-likes-you-likes-you.aspx?cp=all. And you could ask him to dance with you next time you have a dance, or if things keep going well you could tell him you like him! If you have a strong friendship and you tell him you like him, saying you want to be friends no matter how he feels, you won't ruin your friendship (and you'll have the chance at an awesome relationship if he likes you too!).

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My crush (call him A) is my best guy friend. It turns out he likes me too so I told him I felt the same way. The problem is A like 2 other girl. One of them (call her L) is REALLY nice to guys, if you know what I mean, and they dated at the begining of the school year. The thing is the she still give him whatever he wants. A isnt a bad guy so they only kiss but its like their friends with benifits. The other girl is one of my friends(call her S)... He said he sorta like her but not as much as me... S is nice but I know he is just leading her on. (me and A read each others text-- we're that close) We've liked each other before but it was always when I didnt like him he liked me then when I liked him he didnt like me. But now we like each other and flirt and text and have 7 hour phone calls. Hes so sweet! Its justhow do I know hes not doing to me what he is doing to S.
xxx, N

 

hey! well since you know how he was to S, you can watch out for warning signs to see if he's really a good guy. good luck!