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So I don't know what to do! my boyfriend isnt treating me like a girlfriend. we always talk like we're friends and we don't hold hands in public and the only time im happy with him is when we're kissing but after that it's really awkward and we don't know what to talk about. I even told him some realllly personal stuff about myself and he replied "omg lol"...I've liked his best friend for a looong time and I think he likes me too but i started dating my bf because i knew he liked me and i wanted to be safe instead of going for his friend and risk losing them both. . . would it be really bad if i went for his friend? i really like him and i feel like a horrible girlfriend but it just isnt working out for us but i dont know how to tell him..i dont have a back bone and i never broken up with anyone before and i really don't want to hurt him because he's really nice but i always go back to thinking about his friend and i cant get him off my mind...help? thanks mod (:

 

hey! It's totally understandable to feel like breaking up with someone is mean or that you don't want to hurt them. The truth is though, you're not doing this guy any favors, or saving him any pain, by staying with him when your heart's not in it. Think of it this way, the longer you put it off the more time he's losing that he could be spending meeting someone who really really likes him. He might not see it that way at first, but believe me there's no such thing as staying with someone you like to be "nice." good luck!

MOD MOD my bf wont talk to me and wont if I havent seen him in two weeks our parents dont know we are dating my bff said hes not worth it but he said we were forever and he'd never leave my bff said she knew he'd run what do I do?

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