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I've noticed myself chilling out a lot more when I'm around my crush, considering that we're finally actually FRIENDS. I'm starting to wonder, though, do guys like it better when girls are chill or when they freak out around them? I can imagine that freaking out would be flattering but also annoying.

His Answer: “I definitely prefer a girl that’s pretty chill. You can’t really take a girl who freaks out and is really dramatic seriously…it gets annoying. But don’t be too chilled that you’re boring. Just be fun without going crazy and overboard!”--Patrick, 18

Decoded: What Patrick is trying to say is that even though you may think the dramatic girls get more attention, they are not what guys are looking for. Guys actually take those girls as a joke more than anything! Patrick and most guys want someone to have fun with, without being annoyed.

Your Move: Don’t be that girl who makes a fool of herself! Continue to do what you do and you’ll be surprised how much attention you may get from your crush if you stay chill. You’re on the right track to getting your crush! You go girl!

BY MAILYSE FERBER ON 1/4/2013 10:00:00 AM

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Oh I get it! You censor comments. How communist of you. That's ok, I am posting this link on my FB. I will say it there, and it will be shared. Stop pushing the inter-racial couples like white is something better. Let white be with white! Let us ethnic girls have our own guys! :p

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by Donl on 5/4/2013 5:45:26 AM

Aww, the relentless inter-racial push that is always pushing a white girls with a dark male. How insulting to the ethnic girls and women! Every time a dark man is successful and/or handsome you always put him with someone white!!!! We are onto you media!!! We are making babies with our own groups! WHITE GIRLS HELP CELEBRATE THE BEAUTY OF THE ETHNIC FEMALE! Leave her guys alone! They are in short supply as it is, and they are also brainwashed by a sick media liberal agenda. It's not fair to anyone.

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by Donl on 5/4/2013 5:41:21 AM

I have a boyfriend and we barely talk! It's so frustrating! I try to talk but I never can think of what to say so then it's always awkward. Help?

Hey girlie,

If you two are already dating, it doesn't have to be awkward because you both already know that you like each other! Maybe start with a casual convo about what happened at school that day or what your plans for the weekend are, or ask him what his favorite TV shows/movies/bands are and go from there. Once you are more comfortable with each other it won't be awkward at all

Meghan D.

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by lulubird2000 on 2/9/2013 9:53:54 PM

Any ideas on how to not act like a dork wad around guys? Any input will be appreciated

Hey girlie,

Just be yourself and act natural! Being confident is better than trying to be flirty if it's not who you are. Check out our guys channel for TONS of tips on how to act around guys! http://www.girlslife.com/category/guys.aspx

Meghan D.

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by Taekwondolover on 1/20/2013 12:06:23 AM

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I'm trying to figure out if my crush likes me or not. He is always really sweet to me. He isn''t that nice to everyone, He hates to see me cry and always knows how to cheer me up. He pays more attention to me than his other friends and he has really in depth conversations with me that he wouldn't dare talk to his other friends about. He seems to make it his goal to make me smile at least once a day.
Unfortunately he is really hard to read sometimes so I am really confused. Sometimes he is really flirty with me and other times he just acts like I'm just another girl he knows. I am so confused. Does he like me or not? I know I like him... :/

Hey babe,

It sounds like he likes you, but you have to remember that most guys aren't going to be too obvious about their feelings especially if they aren't sure what yours are. Try talking to him some more, maybe you could drop some hints about your feelings and he might open up a bit more about his. Xoxo

Alexis G.

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by MissMystery17 on 1/15/2013 10:48:13 AM