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The best way to get his attention? Be chill


 

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I've noticed myself chilling out a lot more when I'm around my crush, considering that we're finally actually FRIENDS. I'm starting to wonder, though, do guys like it better when girls are chill or when they freak out around them? I can imagine that freaking out would be flattering but also annoying.

His Answer: “I definitely prefer a girl that’s pretty chill. You can’t really take a girl who freaks out and is really dramatic seriously…it gets annoying. But don’t be too chilled that you’re boring. Just be fun without going crazy and overboard!”--Patrick, 18

Decoded: What Patrick is trying to say is that even though you may think the dramatic girls get more attention, they are not what guys are looking for. Guys actually take those girls as a joke more than anything! Patrick and most guys want someone to have fun with, without being annoyed.

Your Move: Don’t be that girl who makes a fool of herself! Continue to do what you do and you’ll be surprised how much attention you may get from your crush if you stay chill. You’re on the right track to getting your crush! You go girl!

BY MAILYSE FERBER ON 1/4/2013 10:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, guy friend Q & A, get his attention now, from BGF to BF, playing it cool

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I have learned to be very chill around my crush, because its somewhat a big deal and then sometimes its not lol I just like talking to him a lot so I have to be chill and calm, so we can keep the convo going.

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by j4zm09 on 1/5/2013 10:28:37 AM

 
 

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well rumor has it that my crush and i REALLY like each other, so everyone teases us about it. For example, at dances, his friends tried pushing him into me, and my friends tried pushing me into him! I KNOW he used to like me because of the way he acted, but now we dont have anymore classes together and I really don't talk to him a lot because it's awkward...how can i start talking to him? it has to be casual too, since I havent talked to him in a LONG time...sorry its so long, but thanks so much!

Hey girl,

If you haven't talked in a while, start by asking what's up! Tell him what you've been doing and what classes you're taking, and ask him the same. If you start getting to know him as friends again, it wouldn't be awkward and maybe you could even get his number. Start with a casual convo and go from there!

Meghan D.

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by LiPsmackertreats on 1/5/2013 12:45:36 AM

 
 

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Sorry that I'm posting a lot of comments. Do you know any cute yet sporty hairdos?

Hey girl,

If you get tired of the same old pony, maybe you could put your hair in a cool braid, or add a small braid into your ponytail!

Meghan D.

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by SoccerGrl 13 on 1/4/2013 11:55:47 PM

 
 

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Okay so I go back to class on the 7th [this Monday]. I want to start a new year being more, outgoing.. Because I tend to be shy when I don't know everyone there really. So I want to let my crush know I like him, but not by flirting too much or anything too close, because I'm not really like that. I know there are like 4 other girls who like him.. but he doesn't really know it. How can I let him know in a low kind of way? It's not like he doesn't know me, because we almost do each class together and he talks and sometimes plays around with me. And, is there a way to get his number? My guy friend has it, but we don't see eachother anymore really... Any tips with these questions?
Also, how can I be more outgoing without being too overboard. I wanna talk more in classes, and stuff. Thanks! Smile

Hey girl,

If you want to give hints to your crush without being too obvious, maybe you could try getting to know him as friends! That way he could see how awesome you are and you could learn more about him, too. If you already talk at school, that's a great sign! And if you become friends, it won't be awkward to ask for his number as friends. As for being more outgoing, maybe set a goal like trying to talk one time in every class, and build up from there Smile

Meghan D.

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by neonroxursox on 1/4/2013 11:01:08 PM

 
 

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Ok, so I have a major crush on this sporty cutie but he told me he likes a girl in another class. He thinks I like him but I changed that after a semi-upset email. I want to impress him when winter break starts but I don't know how.

Hey girlie,

Instead of sending an email next time, maybe try talking to him in person to make things less awkward. If he told you he likes someone else, try staying friends for now and keeping your mind open to the possibility of crushing on a different cutie. If you keep getting to know him as friends, he'll start to see how awesome you are, but if he told you he likes someone else you should keep your options open--there might be some other cuties in your class you haven't noticed before! Smile

Meghan D.

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