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The best way to get his attention? Be chill


 

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I've noticed myself chilling out a lot more when I'm around my crush, considering that we're finally actually FRIENDS. I'm starting to wonder, though, do guys like it better when girls are chill or when they freak out around them? I can imagine that freaking out would be flattering but also annoying.

His Answer: “I definitely prefer a girl that’s pretty chill. You can’t really take a girl who freaks out and is really dramatic seriously…it gets annoying. But don’t be too chilled that you’re boring. Just be fun without going crazy and overboard!”--Patrick, 18

Decoded: What Patrick is trying to say is that even though you may think the dramatic girls get more attention, they are not what guys are looking for. Guys actually take those girls as a joke more than anything! Patrick and most guys want someone to have fun with, without being annoyed.

Your Move: Don’t be that girl who makes a fool of herself! Continue to do what you do and you’ll be surprised how much attention you may get from your crush if you stay chill. You’re on the right track to getting your crush! You go girl!

BY MAILYSE FERBER ON 1/4/2013 10:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, guy friend Q & A, get his attention now, from BGF to BF, playing it cool

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So I have a crush on my bgf, and we're really good friends. Luckily he doesn't know that I like him so it's not really awkward between us. I was thinking about asking him to hang out with me, like as friends, but I don't want him to think its a date. Where do you draw the line? If I asked him to go see a movie with me would that be okay if we're just friends?

Hey girl,

If he's your bgf, it wouldn't be awkward to ask him to hang out as friends! A movie would be fine, or you could ask a few other friends to come too if you wanted it to be less awkward. Have fun!

Meghan D.

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by laurenluv on 1/4/2013 10:50:34 PM

 
 

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So I have asked this before to some moderator, but I can't find which article I posted to (how embarrassing -.-') but I really want my hair to be softer. I use a Paul Mitchell leave n conditioner and a bit of oil treatment stuff from I forget which brand, but do you have ny suggestions for making it softer and possibly less frizzy?

Hey girl,

Paul Mitchell is a great brand, and oil treatments are awesome for your hair too! I personally love Wella and Sebastian products for super soft hair, but there are tons of other options, too, and everyone's hair is different. Next time you get a trim, ask your stylist what he recommends for your hair! Check out this article for some suggestions on frizz/softening conditioners Smile http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/08/22/Shampoo-Challenge-2012-Tuesday.aspx

Meghan D.

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by Penultimate Penguin on 1/4/2013 10:35:29 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! Hey so I'm very confused I really like this guy (and he's "popular" which never bothers me im not really "popular") and it seemed he liked me back because we had a few dates while on break and texted all the time. He sent me sweet texts like "you're beautiful" and other sweet stuff he said he liked me back. Well he stopped texting me for a couple days and when I tried to make plans to have a movie date he said "just as friends, im not really ready for a relationship". But it seemed like he was. Im so hurt and confused to just talk to him now. What should I do?

Hey girl,

It sounds like he had feelings for you, but if he's not ready for a relationship you have to go with what he wants! Try staying friends for now since that is what he is ready for, and maybe things will change in the future. In the meantime, it doesn't hurt to keep your eye open to the possibility of a new crush at school!

Meghan D.

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by TeamAlice33 on 1/4/2013 10:34:17 PM

 
 

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Do you have any jewelry suggestions for this outfit?

Hey girlie,

If you had earrings or a necklace that had some of the same colors that are in the headband, that would complement it and go well together! Maybe just a simple gold necklace or bracelet and a ring would complete your look Smile

Meghan D.

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by SoccerGrl 13 on 1/4/2013 10:17:20 PM

 
 

Hey everyone. There is a new artist named Rochelle Diamante. Look her up on YouTube and on ITunes for her song Queen Bee. Anyway, I'm trying to make her famous so call your local radio station, tell your friends, call your grandma, it doesn't matter. Just get her heard. It will be the best thing you've done today.

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by transform2314 on 1/4/2013 10:13:44 PM

 
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