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I've noticed myself chilling out a lot more when I'm around my crush, considering that we're finally actually FRIENDS. I'm starting to wonder, though, do guys like it better when girls are chill or when they freak out around them? I can imagine that freaking out would be flattering but also annoying.

His Answer: “I definitely prefer a girl that’s pretty chill. You can’t really take a girl who freaks out and is really dramatic seriously…it gets annoying. But don’t be too chilled that you’re boring. Just be fun without going crazy and overboard!”--Patrick, 18

Decoded: What Patrick is trying to say is that even though you may think the dramatic girls get more attention, they are not what guys are looking for. Guys actually take those girls as a joke more than anything! Patrick and most guys want someone to have fun with, without being annoyed.

Your Move: Don’t be that girl who makes a fool of herself! Continue to do what you do and you’ll be surprised how much attention you may get from your crush if you stay chill. You’re on the right track to getting your crush! You go girl!

BY MAILYSE FERBER ON 1/4/2013 10:00:00 AM

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Ok so my school could possibly have an all school dance *never been to one before* plus they might let friends from other schools come...anywho i think that they might do a valentines day dance- of course i'm single, never had a date, never kissed, don't really have close guy friends- anywho i wanna go and like totally be chill in like bright red skinny jeans- i cute leather jacket with black booties and a cool chain cuff earing, but on the other hand i think it'll be ackward cause like my friends are like able to chill out easily when it comes to public gatherings and it hard for me to let loose and do what i want without caring what anyone else thinks...plus my whole school- that may be ackward- lots of older intimidating kids....watcha think? Go or don't bother....


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by Justmecheyenne on 1/4/2013 8:44:16 PM

 
 



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Before me and my crush had a little argument in October, he was really friendly with me. He liked to pat my head, rest his arm on my shoulder, and one time at a haunted house, he grabbed my leg and "just had" to tell me about it. He tried to get to know me by asking me questions. One day, on fb chat he asked me if I like or liked him. I said "no, just as a friend". I said that because I got rejected before by another guy, and I didn't feel like being rejected again. He took it hard, but a week later he tickled my neck.It seemed like after that, he stopped being so friendly. I finally got the courage to tell him I like him. I did it by sending him questions:what is the 9th letter in the alphabet? What is the word bike with an L replacing the B? What is the first letter in "unicorn"? I spells "I like u". He saw it, but never responded. Should I ask him on fb "did u read it?" or should I tell him in person? I don't see him until Tuesday.... Thanks Smile

 

Hey kittycatmeowmeowchelsea, yeah you could go up to him and say something like "How did you like my facebook message?" or "Thanx for responding meanie". Approaching him about it in a playful manner will take the awkwardness out of the situation. Hope this helps! Xoxo 
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by kittycatmeowmeowchelsea on 1/4/2013 8:24:43 PM

 
 



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Ok, so I have a major crush on this sporty cutie but he told me he likes a girl in another class. He thinks I like him but I changed that after a semi-upset email. I want to impress him when winter break starts but I don't know how. I want to put together a rockin outfit but my style is an odd combination of Cher Lloyd meets sporty meets bold. My bday is Sunday and school starts on Wednesday. Any ideas for what I should wear and my hairstyle? Anything helps so please respond!

 

Hey SoccerGrl 13, mhmm I'm trying to think of a sporty look for you. What kinds of pieces were you trying to wear? Was there a particular sweater you wanted to put on? A pair of shoes you wanted him to see you in? Xoxo 


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by SoccerGrl 13 on 1/4/2013 8:18:28 PM

 
 




Mod mod mod i have a huge crush on a guy he even said he would beat up another boy for me we started hnging out alot and i started to like him but then i felt awkward around him i stopped talking to him because i was afraid to say something stupid then i would act weird and obnoxious around him people know i like him and they tease us were growing more distant every day we are in sixth grade and dont talk to eachother i want him back because i really like him one day i heard him say he liked a girl who fits my description and he stares at me alot but one day i waved and smiled at him and he gave me a confused look and waved back

 

Hey Rain278, he's probably unsure of how you feel about him. Think about it from his perspective. Here was this girl he had a great connection with and then all of a sudden she started acting weird. He may have thought you didn't like him anymore. When you waved at him that day, he didn't know exactly how to react. I would try talking to him again. Start off slow and eventually you guys will get back to where you were. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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by Rain278 on 1/4/2013 7:32:29 PM

 
 

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i have long thick non layered black hair, but i dont know how often i should wash it!

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I would talk to your mom about what is good for your specific hair type, but washing it every other day with dry shampoo in between should be fine!


 
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