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Why is my BF keeping our relationship a secret?

 
 
I recently started going out with a guy friend, but I think he is embarrassed about it. He refuses to tell anyone we’re going out now. I don’t know what to think. Help!
 
Bill: Guys often run in packs, like dogs. Or Musketeers. So if one guy in the pack pairs off with a girl, no matter how great that girl is, it affects the dynamic of his pack. After all, your guy will be spending some time with you instead of his pals. Measure your guy’s devotion in the time spent with you, not by what he says (or doesn’t say). Besides, who wants to be the one to take the blame for reducing the Three Musketeers to Two?
 

Dave: Bill’s right on about the pack-mentality of males, so look at the bright side. While you might view your BF’s silence as a negative because it appears he’s less-than-proud to be dating, it beats a kiss-and-tell braggart. If your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship between you and him, without any outside interference for now, let it be.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 1/7/2013 10:00:00 AM

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My guy friend liked this girl that I'm not too fond of, and when he asked her out, she rejected him, saying she likes someone that my guy friend really cant stand. Now he's crushed and keeps talking to me about how upset he is. Normally I'd be more than happy to help him out and comfort him, but its getting to the point where he just keeps going on and on and on about the exact same stuff and its getting monotonous. What makes it worse is the fact that every time I try to change the subject to keep his mind off her, he goes right back to talking about her. What should I do?

Hey girlie,

I know it's hard to hear the same things over and over again, but try to understand what he must be going through! Try cheering his up and getting his mind off of her by doing something fun, like going skating or bowling, or going to the movies. Once he starts having fun and getting his mind off her he won't talk about her as much! 


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by spazzygirI on 1/11/2013 11:40:52 PM

 
 

I means he's embarrassed by you :/ happens to every girl.

by xoxojillianxo on 1/9/2013 3:03:17 PM

 
 

@hermione girl

I read your problem and thats exactly what happened to me and my boyfriend! I was really good friends with him then he developed feelings for me and I him, and once I told him I liked him he told me. Trust me that guy adores you and I would just go for it because even if he says no, a bgf wouldn't leave you because of that one little thing.

by hottie1250 on 1/8/2013 9:44:03 PM

 
 

i was just wondering that today and now I see why thanks a billion girls life!!!

by hottie1250 on 1/8/2013 9:39:28 PM

 
 

I agree that he is better than a guy who does the kiss and tell and lets everyone know what you two are doing with each other but I would be a little concerned. That happened to one of my friends and it ended up that he had another girlfriend and was doing the same thing with her, talk about being a JERK! But it may be innocent too, I would try and find out.

by fashionqn on 1/8/2013 5:34:53 PM

 
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